Would You Masturbate with Him?

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by Nekoman, Dec 5, 2008.

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How would you respond if your man wanted a JO session with you?

Poll closed Oct 2, 2009.
  1. I would find it incredibly hot and go for it in a flash.

    21 vote(s)
    75.0%
  2. It's ok, not particularly exciting, but I'd try it out.

    5 vote(s)
    17.9%
  3. Eeeh, I'd probably do it for him, but it doensnt' turn me on at all.

    2 vote(s)
    7.1%
  4. The idea disgusts me, I'd never do it.

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  1. Nekoman

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    Ok, here's one for you ladies out there --

    men can respond also, but I think I know their answers already.

    Alright, do you like to masturbate with your man. Do you like to rub your
    pussy and watch him rub his cock at the same time.

    I can't get my wife to try it with me. She's too shy -- but the idea of it drives me crazy with lust.

    Am I weird for wanting to jerk off -- while I watch my wife JO??

    How many of you would find this hot -- and how many would be turned off?
     
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    I think it's super hot.
     
  3. Nekoman

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    How do I get my wife to change her mind and try it out?
     
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  5. Nekoman

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    That what happens to her too, I blame Catholic school -- it's sin to masturbate, they say.
     
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    Yeah, but I'm Methodist, not Catholic. I guess I'm just uptight. :tongue::redface:
     
  7. Nekoman

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    Would you like to be able to do it? Does the idea turn you on?

    I can't get her to rub her pussy when she sucks me.

    She just gets shy. I tell her all the time how hot she is, how sexy her pussy is -- not she's still bashful.
     
  8. MickeyLee

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    don't blame catholic school. hell those nuns fueled my masturbation bank for years. domineering women in black dishing out punishment is one of the sweeter things in life.

    don't think your weird. yes, j/o shows are unbelievably hot. is the whole scene a turn off for her? or just having herself exposed?

    you might take the training wheel approach. guide her hands over her body. tell her how beautiful, sexy, hot she is (or whatever works for her). ask her to show you what makes her feel good. tell her how you like to watch her touch herself. and like a training wheels as she gets more comfortable back off and see how far she'll go. if she starts to get a touch nervous tell her where to touch herself. how to move her hands. the etc, etc, etc. just stay positive, reassuring and comforting through out the show.

    it took a while to get my current to be comfortable with any type of showing off. i suspect his ex was some type of sex nazi. he likes it now. loves it now. i'm still the one initiating this type of play most of the time. but i love watching him go from blushing to well other reactions.:wink:

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    It took me years to get comfortable doing it with other people.
    I think she can do it alone. It's just being watched. It's ok if I watch her cumming while I'm making her cum -- it's just her doing it to herself.
     
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    do y'all use any toys? even something tiny like a pocket rocket might be something to try out.

    ML
     
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    I have the same dilema... my gf doesn't want to do it
     
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    If she is shy about it then you are going to have to go slow, no way around that one. A lot of foreplay, masterbating her, having her masterbate you under candlelight with some mood enhancing music like NIN 'a wanna f#@& you like an animal' well maybe not. I think you get the point. Don't expect it overnight. This might take months. the key is to listen to her body, mind and soul. Most women who love their spouses want to please them and it will take some time to get over these fears. Remember that everything that happens in the bedroom is sacred and she has to feel safe with you to feel safe with herslf. nough said. Be cool!!!
     
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    Oh my yes. Hotness :) Do it quite often lol.
     
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    I watch someone masturbate on webcam while I touch myself at the same time.. it's great.
     
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    Yeah, so I'm gay, but trust me on this. Get and insist your wife let you try out a finger vibrator on her clit. Once she gets used to the idea that it turns you on to have her cuddled in your arms as you gently vibrate her to an unihibited climax, she'll be much more inclined to masturbate with you. :biggrin1:

    I should write a book on this subject. :smile:
     
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    I have done it with a few partners and loved it x
     
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