Would you rather a woman deepthroat or gag?

[hammer75]

You do realize it makes no sense that you say your cock is too small for her pussy (in other discussions we've had) but is too big for her mouth? Your pictures clearly show a thick penis of good length....you've stated about 7"? That put your girth in the 6" range which is 99th percentile. In my experience, as I'm the same girth but only an inch longer, you'll be hard pressed to find anyone who can deepthroat you. My ex-wife had quite a capacious vagina...I could fist her and my hand girth is nearly ten inches....but she still easily orgasmed via penile penetration.

I sadly suspect you've been mind-fucked by the two women in your life. I apologize for saying that as I know you love your wife, but from everything you write in these forums, that becomes the only logical conclusion I can find.

And after having 2 kids naturally it didn’t get better. My ex wife did most of the damage, current wife is a sweetheart that just tries to come across honestly where my ex was a pathological liar and a slut.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

And after having 2 kids naturally it didn’t get better. My ex wife did most of the damage, current wife is a sweetheart that just tries to come across honestly where my ex was a pathological liar and a slut.

Well, the bottom line is that you can stop calling yourself "small".

7x6 is big bordering on huge. It's nobody's fault if your wife's vagina is large. That's no more a defect than any other body part's size. It certainly isn't a failing on your part if she doesn't orgasm vaginally. She isn't gonna find guys bigger than you with ease, as I recall you thinking she'd be better off with someone else. My slut ex-wife tried in vain to find bigger. She finally admitted to this when our marriage was way down the shitter. Cold comfort. But the important thing is to use what you two have to best advantage. It sounds as if she needs to pull her share of the weight and to help boost your emotional help a little.

 

[boom_er4]

Does it feel better getting a blowjob, and the woman can take your dick down to the base without gagging...Or when they struggle? With gagging involved, and cannot take all of you? Maybe just giving you a polish job on the head haha

I ask because sometimes you hear "choke on that big dick", and you can't, so you have to fake choking for their ego... or sometimes you'll hear guys saying how good a deepthroat feels. So, what do?

Never been deepthroated, so I wouldn’t know.

 

[Sitronmelde]

We were just talking about this yesterday. She said her enjoyment of deepthroating was all about my excitement - that big smile she gave when she pulled her sexy lips all the way off my proud meat (which never looked bigger) then plunged again down to the root and held it there. Of course, don't be doing this after a lasagna dinner, and have a hand towel nearby to soak up any flow you plunge-pull from her throat; which was obstacle in previous attempts. If the saliva gets too much, a woman laying on her back can easily choke - it has to be messy, so keeping her face positioned above all the nasty action allows her a breath of air here and there. Also, jabbing a womans tonsils isn't helping your cause either; only when you're past the back of her tongue is she going to be able to relax her throat to your thickness.

 

[Nick Briggs]

Does it feel better getting a blowjob, and the woman can take your dick down to the base without gagging...Or when they struggle? With gagging involved, and cannot take all of you? Maybe just giving you a polish job on the head haha

I ask because sometimes you hear "choke on that big dick", and you can't, so you have to fake choking for their ego... or sometimes you'll hear guys saying how good a deepthroat feels. So, what do?

Never been successfully deepthroated as I've posted in another thread. I've met girls who were capable, but never had the opportunity to enjoy said amazing'ness haha.

I have though enjoyed multiple ladies attempt to do just that. They've never gotten more than 4 or 5 inches of me down before the big cough. Afterwards when the fun is over I've been told that it was the thickness (6.0 in around) that was the hindrance more so than the length.

Is it an ego booster that I've been told I'm too big, sure. But I am hopeful to get with a girl that can overcome me and give me that blowjob goddess level experience. But for now the half and half vote is where I'm gonna fall until I get that.

I'm not the type who would complain about any blowjob, but I do notice it's far more effective the more of it the lady can take with each mouth motion.

 

[Sitronmelde]

Me thinks it's the guys with only 6 inch long dicks that give deepthroating a bad experience for women. If he was shorter, it would be just in the mouth, and if he is longer it will tuck down her passage. But it is that unfortunate median length that ends up triggering her unpleasant button. Also, more importantly - she could have a "virgin throat", and sometimes it requires a man's initiative to pull her head down all the way. You might be nervous to do that, especially if you are only dating or less, but if she already knows how to comfortably throat a big cock, another man has gotten there first, and most likely he helped her.

 

[1079855]

I be happy to have a woman who would let me put my dick in her.Someday.

 

[deleted992152]

I've always felt uneasy when they include gagging scenes in porn as it comes across as borderline violent to me (certainly doesn't ever turn me on)