Would you rather have a big penis or good looks?

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Im fortunate in that I have both but if I had to choose id keep the big penis. A guy can always get a girl if he's big and isnt afriad to wip it out :tongue:.
 

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Tough question. The problem is only having one of the two can cause complications for the other.

For example, a good looking guy would be self-confident, but his lack of penis size could ruin this and make him less appealing to women in general. Conversely, if someone has a big penis, he cannot go to a woman and give her the line "I may be ugly as sin, but I have a big knob" and expect to get anywhere.

Which would I choose though? The looks. Looks get you more opportunities unless you're set on the porn industry. The only issue I could see is that women may be put off when they jump into bed, but, if it is used right - and the woman is worth the effort, this should be a non-issue.
 

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I would take the "Good Looks"

Its been my experience with hot women that have found me a mildly attractive "nice guy". That the momment they realize how fat my hard cock is fondling it they change, its like their excitement level skyrockets. like a light switch flipping on. One minute shes warm and we are just fooling around, to a BIG SMILE saying WOW, thats big, fat, impressive, and ripping my pants off to get to my dick to try and suck on it. I magicaly changed from Avg Joe to Brad Pit in seconds :rolleyes:

So I would like to have the "Looks" to have women excited prior to grabing my hard cock.
 

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Good looks, probably. At the end of the day, I think it's more helpful. Plus, if we are to believe most studies, 5" isn't small, it's pretty much the average, isn't it? (Girth is more important anyway ;) )

Good looks are subjective. But a big penis is definite. Tough question, but seeing as five inches isn't far off from where I am now, I'd go with that and the good looks.

Big penis might be (kinda) definite, but wether or not it would be considered a positive thing by different partners, certainly isn't..
 

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Big(ger) dick.
Looks are superficial and get me to first base. Size gets repeats and referrals.
My primary turn on is when a woman gets excited. My favorite sex act by far is giving slow and sensual oral to a woman. This is what makes my decision. My not hot but above average looks (if rugged good looks are what a woman likes then I would get a 7 or so by her) helps get a conversation going. Puts me on the radar screen and I need to work from there. I am not huge but big enough that if follow average I get comments about it every time, girth anyway. So, as her sexuality gets ignited upon her "discovery" I really get turned on.
Best example is three ladies ago: She was separated from a very successful and all american good looking guy. I was fortunate enough to be with her sexually for a while. He must have been hung like one of those tiny guys like Ed Powers or Randy West and she went nuts in bed and was very specific about the whys. I clearly got more bonus points for size difference than I lost for not being as handsome as her ex.
I would be willing to as ugly as shorty mac if I could have same size dick. Of course, the perfect world would be to as handsome as Jack Napier and as well endowed.
 
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Good looks are very important. They get you in the door.
I've been commented on about my penis so much and my looks not so much or rarely.
Fact is, women love a fat dick that is long.
I might not be exceptional by this site's standards, but my experiences show that women love to get their hands on it and then it winds up in their mouths.
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You can have a big dick , but if your not appealing to me, i could care less how big you are. so im going to go with looks to!
 

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Big penis - mainly because my fiance loves it, and I'm not in a line of work or the type of lifestyle where good looks will bring me any significant benefit.
 

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I am told I am a good looking guy and I have a 5 incher so I think I will stay as I am. Don't think I would give up my looks for an extra inch. Selfishly I would like to have my looks and a thicker dick. Would keep the 5 inches, need girth though
 

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Its like when you see this couple walking by and the gal is pretty enough to give you whiplash as you walk by but she is walking arm in arm with either a relly homely mother fucker or just flat out puggish. You know the guy has got to be hung like a donkey. I mean what else could it be????

I think I have average looks, but I've been told by quite a few women that I am good looking. I just don't see it though so...shrug. I spent most my life with a 7.75 length and 4.75 at the end and the shaft but about 6" at the base...shrug, never had any complaints, in fact lots of compliments. It helps to know what your doing as well but thats a topic for another day.

All I know is if 5 inches is average I feel sorry for the average guy. This is why, now instead of 7.25 long with a nice slight upward curve it has become 5" with a hard downward curve. 5 inches long with the tailor's tape going all the way o the end is just 5" bu if you hold thetape out along side the penis its more like 4.50. All I can think of is next to no testosterone, wit hsevere nerve damage and scar tissue from a near crippling lower back injury have had a negative enough effect on my manhood that I am put off by sex. The worst part is most doctors will tell you its a matter for a therapist. The ydon;t take this condition seriously because there are so few of us and out of the total men afflicted, I would wager less than 10% will acknowledge it publicly because of embarassment.

I am content with my average looks. I want my fucking cock back! For the first time in 16 years I'm single again, I am still attracted to women, I just don't want to know what sex is like with this goddamned thing.
 

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Well, it depends on how ugly we're talking. Also, I'm still a virgin so having a large penis really does me no justice. I'm not large, I'm only about 7'' but if I were like 8'', 9'' or anything above I am not exactly sure it would change anything.

I'm told I'm a nice looking kid, but I don't think so. It could be a self confidence thing, but looks like that's not happening right now. I'm a unique looking black guy, as I have features you don't normally see on black guys.

In the ultimate question, if you have me a choice to look better or have a bigger penis? Probaly a bigger penis. Then again, my penis is still growing SLOWLY. I remeber when it twas 4.5'' and took two years to grow, then i t was 5.5 and I thought it wouldn't grown. SO I hope it continues!
 

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Then again, if I just workout and get a wittle buffer then I think I'll be satisfied. Even thought getting bigger quads will maketh the penis look smaller.
 

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I'm not large, I'm only about 7''.

I'm told I'm a nice looking kid...but I don't think so. It could be a self confidence thing... I'm a unique looking black guy, as I have features you don't normally see on black guys.

In the ultimate question, if you have me a choice to look better or have a bigger penis? Probaly a bigger penis. Then again, my penis is still growing SLOWLY. I remeber when it twas 4.5'' and took two years to grow, then i t was 5.5 and I thought it wouldn't grown. SO I hope it continues!

LGX at 7" you are LARGE, well above the average of 5", and if you're still growing all the better - not that you need too, you should have plenty of self-confidence in this area and since you're " a nice looking kid with unique features" all the better, your unique looks and really nice penis size will make you very memorable for most anyone, you sound positively yummy to me! I envy the lucky men and women that will get to be with you.
 

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I have both, really. If I *had* to choose one or the other, I'd keep my good looks. Though having a big cock gives me more to work with when I selfsuck and get into crazy sexual positions with my partner.