Real good looks are admired by all, thus they open doors and create opportunities-for friendship, for career, for romance. You can still get these opportunities if you have a winning personality or confidence, or if you are born wealthy, but good looks cut to the chase. A huge penis is a plus, but it's not something that will be universally admired. For instance, if you are good looking, and a fairly decent guy, women will try to fix you up with their beautiful daughter. Men will even do this. But no one is going to tell their daughter, "Hey I got a guy with a big cock that is perfect for you!" A huge cock would certainly be a good thing if you are in your early 20's and run with a hedonistic, club-going crowd--you would get laid a lot. But long term, good looks are unbeatable. I feel I should point out--since this is a rather shallow topic--that you can have a pretty good, successful life without either. Also, good looks and being endowed are subjective anyway. Finally, I've seen average-looking couples produce beautiful children.