Would you show if a gay friend asked?

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The variety of answers here is what keeps us gay guys guessing....some would rethink the friendship..others are totally cool with it. I don't want to lose any friends but I pretty much want to see y'all dicks....
I said yes, however, I don't have any gay friends and I'm not sure if it would change the friendship. If you show interest in your friends genitals does it make it seem like you are coming on to them? Would they be afraid once it's out you would try to touch it. Maybe asking for a picture is the work around for all this drama? I love showing my dick to anyone I can, I'm proud of my dick, but dicks fuck things up sometimes lol.
 

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I said yes, however, I don't have any gay friends and I'm not sure if it would change the friendship. If you show interest in your friends genitals does it make it seem like you are coming on to them? Would they be afraid once it's out you would try to touch it. Maybe asking for a picture is the work around for all this drama? I love showing my dick to anyone I can, I'm proud of my dick, but dicks fuck things up sometimes lol.
Interesting. I mean, of course I'd like to touch it...but I'm happy just seeing it. I'm not going to go back and find the exact quote, but in the book, Portnoy's Complaint, the main character muses on how each and every woman has a pussy and how he wants to see all of them. I feel the same way about dicks. I'm pretty fascinated by them. Each of them are different and have their own character. If I am friends with you, I've pretty much speculated about what kind of dick you have. I've actually seen most of my friend's dicks in non-sexual ways...but there is one friend I've had for over ten years who was always very private and squeamish about getting naked...like when we would all go to some hot springs or a spa....and that only made me more curious about him. Last year we hung out, and some time had passed, and he finally got completely naked...again, in a non sexual manner. It didn't surprise me that he had a really small dick and he admitted to being self-conscious about it. But still, I found his small dick kind of adorable.
 

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I think we all have interest in how we stack up against one another.... especially among brothers and friends...if the approach was along the lines of that I’d say yeah... if it was grounded in sexual interest I think that is a diff sort of scenario that requires both parties to be clear on the motivation.
 

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A straight friend of mine is a real horndog...and loves big breasts. We have a lesbian friend who has huge breasts. He was always salivating over them and it became a joke between the two of them. Finally, one night, he got on his knees and asked her if she'd please show her tits. She agreed and flashed him.

If you had a gay friend who was really attracted to you...but understood that you'd never fool around together...would you show him your dick if he asked?
Can i see her tits too lol. And a like me. I probably would. And depending on the situation/alcohol maybe more
 

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No. The issue is the request is based upon sexuality at some level. If it happens naturally in a locker room, it is what it is. You saw it. Big deal. But asking to see it is another thing, and brings other things into the mix.
 

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I probably wouldn't, just because the last thing I'd want is for him to develop any sort of sexual attraction towards me from it. I'm not conceited, but I am aware of how much larger my cock is than most men's and how seeing it might possibly have that effect on a gay friend. Sexual attraction and friendship usually don't mix together too well all that often, at least in my experience; it just gets in the way.
 
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It happened to me before. He asked for pics of my penis all the time. So I can say: No, I wouldn't show him.
 

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I would definitely get naked with him in a gym or pool locker room situation. I'd stand next to him at a urinal and not hide. I don't think I'd whip it out in a situation where I wouldn't normally be exposed, and I'm not sure how that request would come up.