Roommates and H.I.V.
By RANDY COHEN
For this question you are not romantically involved. You are just sharing an apartment or house to save on living expenses. Would you tell a roommate if you were HIV+? Would you expect an HIV+ roommate to inform you of his/her status?
By RANDY COHEN
An Internet forum I read has been discussing living with people with H.I.V. As someone whose roommate is H.I.V. positive, I believe he need not tell housemates about his status. Many disagree, saying that household items a razor, a toothbrush could be used accidentally. I say the chance of infection in this way is too low to require disclosure. Agreed? NAME WITHHELD, NEW YORK
Agreed, with a few qualifiers. An epidemiologist I consulted, Dr. Paul Marantz , while not an expert in H.I.V. in particular, confirms that the risk of transmission from household contacts is very low. Thus, as an ethical matter, I see no obligation to disclose H.I.V. status to housemates. There is a duty to be careful with personal objects like a razor or a toothbrush so that other people do not inadvertently use them and to be cautious about minor mishaps. (If someone who is H.I.V. positive cuts himself, for instance, he should be sure to put on a Band-Aid.) And he should consult his physician about how to generally protect the people he lives with. That is, he must respond to his roommates reasonable health concerns while preserving his medical privacy.
For this question you are not romantically involved. You are just sharing an apartment or house to save on living expenses. Would you tell a roommate if you were HIV+? Would you expect an HIV+ roommate to inform you of his/her status?