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That is the tip of a very complicated issue. So, let's backtrack a bit.I have not cheated! My partner has told me never cheated. But I wonder would you tell your partner if you cheated? A one to,eh or two time mistake, would you say something risking... much anger, hurt, confusion and talk. So would you tell your partner?
Had someone asked me this question years ago, I may have said that I would have confessed to cheating.
Now, years later, the sex has gone from my marriage, because my wife has lost her sex drive. She is aware that she has lost interest; yet, she does not want to do anything about it.
My already high sex drive is as strong as it ever was. Since she would not do anything about this matter, I felt cheated. As a result, I have been cheating. I have had numerous sex partners and various cities, all men, some of whom find themselves in a marriage similar to my own, others single or anything in between.
I am finding the sexual gratification that I should have had within my marriage.
I have no intention of stopping.
I have no intention of confessing my adultery.
I have every intention of continuing to enjoy myself.
I find this odd. Why wouldn’t you just split from your wife? You can’t say it’s because of love, or else cheating wouldn’t be happening. Or you would at least feel some shred of guilt about this, which you obviously don’t. Why stay married? Just split up, be single, and have your fun. I don’t understand hanging on to something you’re clearly no longer happy with or getting any kind of fulfillment out of.
I find this odd. Why wouldn’t you just split from your wife? You can’t say it’s because of love, or else cheating wouldn’t be happening. Or you would at least feel some shred of guilt about this, which you obviously don’t. Why stay married? Just split up, be single, and have your fun. I don’t understand hanging on to something you’re clearly no longer happy with or getting any kind of fulfillment out of.
do you realise how many single women there would be in the world? So many men cheat because they don’t get it at home.
I hear you guys I'm married almost 7 years one kid when I met her I was going to be honest about my cock sucking fetish but when she told me she supports gay or bi guys but not her man that was it so for years since I'm 17 48 soon I have secretly over years hooked up with guys sucked them good times even when was single alot of years only a handful of people knew of my fetish .but when we first hooked up and first few years alot of sex dirty stuff but when my son came and her career is more now its harder and I stray to this site and others I only hooked up once since with her last year before this disaster started sucked off this Asian massage guy .I so want to do again and like you guys say be yourself safe and enjoy life
No never done but don’t think I wouldI have not cheated! My partner has told me never cheated. But I wonder would you tell your partner if you cheated? A one to,eh or two time mistake, would you say something risking... much anger, hurt, confusion and talk. So would you tell your partner?
What a topic of discussion!
My wife underwent major oral surgery and lost 1/3 of her tongue to cancer. She got a flap reconstruction so she has a tongue but it is nowhere near what a normal, fully functioning tongue is like. After her surgery she could suck me and we could kiss and it worked fine enough for me. But, and this is a big BUT, she admitted to me that if the time and place and person arose and things seemed perfect and okay, that she'd be okay with me getting a proper blowjob from someone else, mainly because she couldn't do it like she used to anymore and would never be able to give me that same level of pleasure again and felt bad for me because I was missing out.I didn't want to believe her but she said for sure she'd be okay with it. I've never taken her up on this option (although at a strip club less than a year after her surgery I came very very close to one and passed) and its been like 7 years or so now and I'm not that into it anymore, but it may still be on the table (I haven't asked her about this in a long long time).
She's going through menopause due to cancer treatments and it fucking sucks. I'm not going to candy coat this at all: it fucking blows chunks for both of us. We've had a decent amount of sex the last two months but there have been issues on my end (I'm too fucking nervous and excited to get hard for her when the time comes and she's wet and ready for me although I get hard like 20 times a day in seconds from almost nothing at all), but last year, the whole year, we only had sex 6 times and we used to be like a 25+ times a month married couple. She can't suck me for that long and only a few times a year can she handle sucking me to completion. I'd be fine if she could please me orally because she loves to suck me its a passion of hers. But no BJ and no sex, its hard to sustain the level of orgasmic completion I really need to feel normal and feel like a human. I cum sometimes and wish I hadn't, its underwhelming sometimes.
Thinking about cheating on her turns my stomach. She's the love of my life. But, I can certainly see why married or committed partners might cheat. Last year just the thought of touching a sopping wet pussy made me think what it would be like to fuck another woman. She's ready for me again so the thoughts are passing, thank god! However, I know what the frustration is like. To go from so much sex all the time that its just the normal way of life to absolutely none at all, for months and months with no hope in sight, its is a life change, a big one.