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J/k. Just trying to get your attention. kinda.
So I have been talking to this girl. (not for the past week). I have been sending her txt msgs and she never responds. I was kinda like "wtf?" but whatever. I called her today, and her phone is disconnected. You know, get a message saying "this phones service has temporarily been disconnected".
Ok, well, I wanted to go out on a date with her this weekend. But alas! I can't contact her! I know where her dorm is. I was wondering if you ladies would think it wierd or crazy to just like, show up at her dorm trying to see her or whatever. Does that sound crazy? I could see how it would be interpreted as nuts, which is why I am hesitant to try.
I know she likes me, but I don't know how much. I don't know if a random visit would be appreciated. She has been plagued recently by some very shitty guys lately. One guy is obsessed with her, and gets mad when one of my friends hugs her. Another guy, locked her in his room (she was drunk and passed out) and turned off her phone and probably would have raped her had not my friends called the cops and rescued her.
So obviously I don't want her to think I'm another crazy asshole! I just want to talk to her and see if she wants to go out to the movies or something with me lol.
What do you all think? Should I just show up at her dorm room randomly unnanouced (i cant announce it). I think If I go kinda early during the daytime she might not freak out as much maybe?
I sort of have another option. My friend and her are very good friends. They hang out alot. But the problem is, he caught me and her making out. (i did not know at the time) but he expressed his anger about that to her later on. She told me basicly that he wants her, and she does not want him at all. So I think it would be messed up for me to call my friend and ask him to talk to her for me or something, or i dunno, ask him whats going on or whatnot.
So what do you think? ^_^
Edit: Just a side note. She is not avoiding me (a friend suggested this). Me her and a bunch of other people hang out most weekends. We most definatley will see eachother again, but it may not be this weekend. It would be really dumb to just burn bridges like that so obviously she is not avoiding me. We are not dating for that specific reason. We don't want to jump into it, and then find out we hate eachother and fuck things up for the group of friends we chill with, so we are just talking and testing the waters. Thats why I want to take her out on a date and get to know her more. Thats is all...
So I have been talking to this girl. (not for the past week). I have been sending her txt msgs and she never responds. I was kinda like "wtf?" but whatever. I called her today, and her phone is disconnected. You know, get a message saying "this phones service has temporarily been disconnected".
Ok, well, I wanted to go out on a date with her this weekend. But alas! I can't contact her! I know where her dorm is. I was wondering if you ladies would think it wierd or crazy to just like, show up at her dorm trying to see her or whatever. Does that sound crazy? I could see how it would be interpreted as nuts, which is why I am hesitant to try.
I know she likes me, but I don't know how much. I don't know if a random visit would be appreciated. She has been plagued recently by some very shitty guys lately. One guy is obsessed with her, and gets mad when one of my friends hugs her. Another guy, locked her in his room (she was drunk and passed out) and turned off her phone and probably would have raped her had not my friends called the cops and rescued her.
So obviously I don't want her to think I'm another crazy asshole! I just want to talk to her and see if she wants to go out to the movies or something with me lol.
What do you all think? Should I just show up at her dorm room randomly unnanouced (i cant announce it). I think If I go kinda early during the daytime she might not freak out as much maybe?
I sort of have another option. My friend and her are very good friends. They hang out alot. But the problem is, he caught me and her making out. (i did not know at the time) but he expressed his anger about that to her later on. She told me basicly that he wants her, and she does not want him at all. So I think it would be messed up for me to call my friend and ask him to talk to her for me or something, or i dunno, ask him whats going on or whatnot.
So what do you think? ^_^
Edit: Just a side note. She is not avoiding me (a friend suggested this). Me her and a bunch of other people hang out most weekends. We most definatley will see eachother again, but it may not be this weekend. It would be really dumb to just burn bridges like that so obviously she is not avoiding me. We are not dating for that specific reason. We don't want to jump into it, and then find out we hate eachother and fuck things up for the group of friends we chill with, so we are just talking and testing the waters. Thats why I want to take her out on a date and get to know her more. Thats is all...
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