Would You Want To Be Outed To Friends For Hanging A Large Penis?

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I don’t mind being outed to someone in a private conversation, but I don’t appreciate when someone who has been drinking seems to get fascinated by my bulge and gets loud and tells everyone. Some friends know it irks me, so they usually turn it on the loud mouth and say “Jerry can tell us about his dick when he feels like it, but since you have the floor and everyone’s attention, why don’t you tell us about yours?” So that usually shuts the conversation down and the guy is too drunk to listen, so then I just leave the group. Loud conversations, especially in mixed company about my penis do not feel appropriate to me. I am not embarrassed, more irked by a rude person when I am out for a good evening.

I wrote about this in another forum and talked about how I had a private conversation with a friend who discussed my penis too much and he stopped right away and apologized. All is great between us now.

I personally do not take credit for having a plump 7-7.5 inch dick when flaccid nor the slight growth when hard. I did absolutely nothing to earn it and I don’t let it dominate my life. I would say the only advantage that I took use of were numerous nude modeling opportunities when I was in college. I named my price and earned some money for a down payment on my first home. It was entirely non sexual work.
 

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What would be your reaction to being outed publicly? Has it happened to you? What would be the pros and cons?
I'm a nudist and so many if not most of my friends know my flaccid size. No big deal. However, I respect others' privacy and expect the same. There is no social situation in my life that would ever warrant such behavior as "outing" someone's genital size.
 

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It's happened to me before, that some aquitaince or other has made a very open remark pubically about how huge my cock is. That fact of people knowing that information pubically doesn't bother me. Where its a tad arkward is where it comes somewhat off topic and you become a bit embarrassed for others that perhaps they didn't really want to know about it in detail.

I think particularly when you're in a group with couples and you can tell certain guys In the group really don't want to get it to a penis discussion as they are self conscious or just not that confident or have insecurities.
 

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I'm afraid I don't have an original tone to contribute.

Being in the Army, many friends have seen my dick in some capacity or another. And I get that friends talk for various reasons about various aspects of their friendships, but I've expressed to friend groups that it bothers me when people I don't even know are aware of and make reference to my cock size and it's the only thing they know about me. I can certainly appreciate inside jokes and the like, but the entire point is that they belong to the group.

I've also dealt with the experience where a friend simply corrected someone who asked out loud if they thought I was erect in dress pants. Bit of a gray area, but I suppose it is better than friends interrupting a conversation just to tell the person I'm talking to that I have a big dick.
 
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When I was younger, a friend had seen me naked and told everyone in the class i had a big dick. Like, a comparatively huge one. Announced in the middle of class. Everyone made fun of me for a few years, but then eventually got curious and as I grew, they wanted to know.
 
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When I was younger, a friend had seen me naked and told everyone in the class i had a big dick. Like, a comparatively huge one. Announced in the middle of class. Everyone made fun of me for a few years, but then eventually got curious and as I grew, they wanted to know.

We need photos.