Absolutely not! I would never attend anyone's wedding and behave ungraciously. If she had a concern, she should have brought it up before thousands of dollars were spent on the wedding and all the guests were present to overhear. That was terrible judgment. I don't believe that was the real motivation. It sounds to me like she wanted to ruin the day.
I've attended several ex-es weddings because I was invited and I was glad to attend.
It sounded to me like vengeance and took me a moment to process that it might have been jealousy, but I think that's because I don't feel negative feelings towards a person's mate even if I envy her. I'm just not wired to think "Oh I want him so she's a bitch." Or, "Girls he's worthless! because I want him" The closest I ever think is, "She's so lucky to have him, I am curious about what he sees in her," and that's only if I don't think I understand why he's fallen for her.
I've attended several ex-es weddings because I was invited and I was glad to attend.
It sounded to me like vengeance and took me a moment to process that it might have been jealousy, but I think that's because I don't feel negative feelings towards a person's mate even if I envy her. I'm just not wired to think "Oh I want him so she's a bitch." Or, "Girls he's worthless! because I want him" The closest I ever think is, "She's so lucky to have him, I am curious about what he sees in her," and that's only if I don't think I understand why he's fallen for her.
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