nothing.I can't wrap my head around this one.
What happened on the 1st date that even suggested this might be cool?
nothing.
absolutely nothing.
barely a kiss goodbye.
nope, i never talk sex on a first date.Seems like your selection filters are a bit faulty. The topic must have come up on the 1st date! I remember when a bunch of flowers, chocolates & a nice chianti were enough!
Perhaps you should have used them on him, cos he's a very naughty boy:biggrin1:
i wouldn't have been quite so offended if he had.He might have been wanting you to tie him up dolf. Fire up the oxyacetyaline cutting equipment ;-)
Just randomly?to turn up to a second date with a bag full of ropes & bondage shit?
well...yeah...Jeeze, if I wanted to do kink play with a new partner, I'd wait until we've had plenty of vanilla sex first so we can get used to each other's sexual styles. Then discuss boundaries, safe words, dislikes, likes, turn-ons, and turn-offs, before getting naked.
then i'd talk to the mods & get a new account.just gonna throw it out there, but what if he found you on here and began stalking you?
what was in the bag came up after i told him, firmly but politely, that i had no intention of sleeping with him.Just randomly?
Thats ballsy. Stupid, but ballsy.
I mean, dont you have to get to know each other's favorite color first, and stuff. How does the hardware just come out.
Is there more to this story?
i told him to fuck off and i've blocked his number.
i'm well into the kinky stuff but to assume that i'm going to sleep with him and to think i'm retarded enough to let a guy i've met twice tie me up? wtf??