wtf is wrong with me?

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Absolutely nothing to worry about man. I'm with Rubi on this one though. Try one where you smile and see what happens. Despite what we might think is funny strangers don't get that necessarily in a photo where someone who knows us would. I once tried 'blue steel' from Zoolander in a group photo and just looked like I was in the middle of suffering a stroke. Not the most attractive look.
Most everyone responds well to warm and relaxed so try to look like someone they'd let through their front door. You can be handsome but if you're not approachable you'll not know about it. Remember, being good looking and being attractive are two different things. :wink:
 
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You know you are an attractive guy. And I am sure you know that being rejected by a bunch of "pic collectors" on those sites is no indication of your attractiveness.
From my personal experience, most guys on sites like those are not really there to meet or hookup, reagrdless of what crap they write in their profile. You can match their requirements exactly, and they will still find some excuse NOT to meet you. They never had any intentions of doing so. They just want to sit at their computers, play with you, collect pics and jerk off. For the most part they are a bunch of dysfunctional guys who are really incapable of any sort of REAL connection.

So dont Fret about it If you ever hit NYC, ill buy you a cup of coffee and we can chat.
 

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Eyebrows!

Rubi had the best advice - use a warmer expression and you'll seem more approachable.

But it took a moment because I was distracted by your eyebrows.
 

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I dont see anything wrong with you either. You are a good looking guy. But I would also suggest to smile more and not try to look like a big macho guy :rolleyes:

And ZM.... I think I will need to see that "Zoolander" pic.... :biggrin1: