WTF my cock isn't working!!!

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by alx, Jan 14, 2011.

  1. alx

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    Out of the blue my libido has taken a massive beating. There is no reason why, I've never felt better mentally physically no Stress etc.... Plus the love life is bloody good..... I just don't feel that horny.

    I don't wake up with morning wood anymore nor in the night do I get hard like I nomally would do.

    When I do get a boner, which is pretty rare atm I do manage to get to my full length of 8" but sometimes I'm looking at 7.5" however my girth is just stupidly reduced to 6" when it should be hitting atleast 6.5.

    The worst thing is it just doesn't feel hard, it's not reaching its normal potential and I can't flex my penis muscles, I have no control. Normally I would be able to flex it and be ROCK hard. Not any more :(

    Seriously I feel less manly, I feel sorry for the gf and tbh it's getting me down.... What's my problem and what can I do to help 'Big Al' out.

    I can get some cheap viagra but really just want to sort it out naturally and sort the problem properly. HELP

    ...oh ive had this problem 6 bloody weeks!
     
  2. docilej

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    Sounds like you need to get to the doc's for a physical and tell him the problem. You might want to start taking some vitamins (Maca, horny goat weed, yohimbine, ginsing....)
     
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    agree... M.D. soon
     
  4. RumperRoom

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    Come on over and I'll make it hard. Your bored with you old lady, Time to cum to the dark side. C'mon big boy.
     
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    Yeah, it's doctor time for you and Big Al.
     
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    Do you drink stimulant drinks such as coffee, tea, coke, Red bull etc.? if yes, it could be causing your problem. It is known to cause andrenal exhaustion which can effect your sex drive etc.

    Adrenal Fatigue in Men
     
  7. alx

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    Nope I've had maybe 2 cuppas this month, and the last time I had redbull was new years eve. I only drink water, unless I'm out with friends on a night out then it's alcohol.

    .... So is it actually a trip to the doctors. Dont think they would take me seriously. I'm only 21 surely I can't be having ED problems.

    At The earliest I won't be able to get an appointment till next saturday as I'm busy. Do you think I could use a bit of Viagra just to help things along till then?
     
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    I would also say it's time for the doctor. My mother is in the medical field so she always stressed the importance of being very upfront with your doctor and honest. From the looks of your pictures, you're young, as I am. I can imagine how tough it is to even have the idea of going to the doctor and inquiring about possible erectile dysfunction at such a young age, but you'll thank yourself immensely should he be able to diagnose and correct the problem.

    At any rate, update us soon on how things are going and especially what is said if you visit the doc. Best of luck!
     
  9. henry777

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    Are you taking any antidepressants or antihypertensives? I heard that certain types of drugs in these classes can cause low libido. Definitely go see a doc about it.
     
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    I agree with these guys and I think you should see a doctor. I know at 21 it's a bit strange to be having this kind of problem, and maybe even stranger having to talk about it with a doctor. But doctors deal with this stuff every day. They aren't gonna laugh at you and make fun of you. I guarantee you not the first to have a problem like this! My dad just went thru prostate cancer and has made a full recovery after having it surgically removed. I doubt that what's wrong with you but it still could be something with your prostate. At any rate, wouldn't it be better if you found out what's wrong and started treating it to become right again rather than letting it go and wondering while it could possibly get worse and become serious and unfixable? Your body's trying to tell you something -- time to start listening.
     
  11. SeeDickRun

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    There are so many causes of that problem. I know when I had the problem, I can trace it back to the onset of my becoming diabetic. Everyone above is telling you the right thing. Get to the doctor, (hopefully a good one) and have a battery of tests to see what's going on!
     
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    I won't argue with you not going to the doctor, it's never a bad idea.

    I had this sort of "problem" before, although it didn't last 6 weeks, for me it was around 2 weeks, I had the same symptoms I couldn't get as hard as I wanted and just general low sex drive. I'm not sure exactly what happened I don't think I changed anything about me but the fact that I was worrying about it, messed me up more. So I just tried to focus my mind on something else, and all of a sudden I was back again. I'm assuming this happens from time to time, sometimes you've got stress you don't even know about, don't stress it...

    Good luck!

    BTW, I would'nt recommend taking pills... I'm 21 too and I would'nt want them to be messing with me at this early age.
     
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    *damn...can't get this bug off my screen...what?? oh...it's junkere's avatar*

    Dude, when I first read your post it sounded like male menopausal symptoms, stuff guys around my age usually start experiencing. But 21? You said you feel good physically, but the question is are you in good physical condition (i.e. do you exercise regularly...)? If that's you in the avatar, I guess the answer would be yes.

    So...definitely DO see a doctor. You'll probably want blood tests to check your testosterone level, to check for diabetes, and to check your triglyceride and cholesterol levels. You'll also want to be checked for HBP and other indicators of hypertension. People usually have these conditions well before feeling the symptoms.
     
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    That's what I wondered.

    Worth seeing a doc, and I do think they'll take it seriously. Happens to lots of ppl of various ages, for various reasons.

    Good luck! :)
     
  15. alx

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    Yeah that's me in the avatar at present, I don't have time for the gym and stuff anymore (haven't been in two years) but I keep physically fit As I work in construction so I'm constantly on the go, I eat pretty healthy too, ie low fats, eat about 8 fruits a day, Multi vits.

    I know that Im the type of person that falls apart when stressed , and have suffered from anxiety for years although not seen a doctor about it. Don't really sleep well.
    However saying that I'm currently in the best mental condition I've been in for a long long time. I don't feel stressed, the anxiety has pretty much gone. Everything for once is tip top which is why I really don't understand what's going on.

    Not on any meds , trip to doctors damn that's not going to be fun :( I've alway been a horny bastard it just feels unhuman/unnatural atm
     
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    Lack of sleep and anxiety are both proven causes of ED. Aside from that, you might just have a testosterone deficiency. That can pop up for almost no reason whatsoever just do to genetics, and only a doctor would really be able to confirm it. Some things interfere with your body's ability to process testosterone as well, and the doc probably has a laundry list of factors to look at if it appears your T-levels aren't right.

    It's also been said that the penis is the "dipstick of male health" and that when it isn't working correctly, there's probably cause for concern elsewhere in the body. There's a small possibility it might be tipping you off to some other problem. Yet another reason to see the doctor.
     
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    Seeing a doctor is the best advice,specifically a Urologist.
     
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