X% Straight, Y% Gay --- please explain! :)

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  1. deepdick

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    OK, I'm not the only guy here that immediately looks at the stats when reading posts. What really intrigues me are the guys that report they are 90% straight and 10% gay. or 99/1

    OMG I need to hear some explanations about this. How did you come up with that and let’s hear some proof to support it. Unabashedly looking for some hot stories. What can I say? :biggrin1:
     
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    The question comes about about once every 4 months or so....

    The quick answer is to acknowledge the fact that sexuality is a spectrum. There are 90% straight guys who admit that a nice cock has a certain amount of appeal (or maybe they've jacked off other guys in their teen years or something...) At the same time, there are gay men who have had sex with women in their past or can at least appreciate the sexually appealing attributes of womanhood....
     
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    I picked the 99 straight/1 gay, because I don't think anybody is 100% in anything. Also, I do admire the male body, just not in a sexual way. To me the human body is beautiful...female or male. When I see a good looking guy I don't get horny and think "I'd like to get it on with him". I have seen quite a few women that caused those kind of thoughts to cross my mind, though.:biggrin1:

    That's my best explanation. I don't have any hot gay encounter stories to tell you...sorry.
     
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    I think humans are sexual creatures. I as a man am not a homosexual. I do not enjoy sex with men. I have had sexual experiences with men, but i didnt enjoy them. I love women, everything about them, smell, taste, look, everything. However, I list myself as 10% gay, for the simple fact that im a human and there are times when i see a man and think to myself "wow, he has really nice ..." you get the point. I think most men can find erotisim in other men if they allow themselves to be human. However most men are so scared of their own sexuality and the idea of being even a little gay scares them so shitless that they would never admit this. I think this shit has to change because fear leads to hate, which leads to more fear and more hate, which leads to violence, and thats just fucked up.
     
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    AMEN!!!
     
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    I had the same question and made a thread: an old one
    If I can remember I think I call it You is or You Aint.
    some pretty good answers...some really deep from both guys & gals.
    Check it out if you have time to read the replies.
    Let me know if you can't find it I'll search it out for you cause I don't know it I still totally understand.:biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
     
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    Kind of like what Andrew Dice Clay says "Bisexual, bullshit! You either suck cock or you don't!"

    My % comes from the total number of gay encounters I have had in relationship to all sexual encounters. My figures are pretty accurate unless you count masturbation as a gay encounter.

    My perspective is similar to fattycakes. I have had sexual encounters with men, but they were no more intruiging or appealing than masturbation.
     
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    May I direct you to the work of Alfred Kinsey, the Kinsey Scale and the books Sexual Behavior in the Human Male and Sexual Behavior and the Human Female.

    That's where the basis for part of this comes from.
     
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    Same here. I like to j/o with other hung guys (gay or str8), and have sucked cock once, it was fun, but I didn't really get a "sexual" hit from it, and the idea of fucking a guy (or being fucked by one) has no appeal to me.
     
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    I agree with the other guys, no one is 100% anything. I notice other guys if they are really good looking or have a great body, but I don't get turned on by them. I have thought about what oral sex with a guy would be like, have a bit of curiosity about sucking cock. I don't think I would ever actively look for it, but if a situation came up and I was comfortable with the other guy, I think I would try it. I'm probably more 95% straight and 5% gay, but I don't think that was an option when setting up my profile.
     
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    For at least the first year after I joined I was 100% straight. I decided to edit my profile to more closely resemble the truth. Spend some time here and you will probably find that you are not 100% anything. It will start when you wish they had a 99.9% option and then you will just slowly accept that you need to change your profile if you are honest with yourself and others.
     
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    I started off here by putting a percentage that I felt truly represented my sexuality, however given the nature of the site it was guys I came on here to communicate with not women, so after I'd received quite a lot of pm's from women I changed it to 100% straight. I agree no one can be 100% anything, in the right circumstances anyone can step outside of what they perceive as their sexual norm.
     
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    I once had 1% gay since I do have some gay porn on my comp
    later I changed to 20% gay since I declared myself bi
    now I set unsure since once again I'm falling into despair because of this confusion
     
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    then i'm not sure how u can say ur 1% gay, saying ur 1% gay means ur sexually attracted to another man just the slightest bit....the fact that no man turns u on makes u str8 and therefore u are 100% str8 because men just dont get u off....saying ur slightly gay means something else about you, thats what i believe at least.
    i'm 100% gay so if i were to put down 1% str8 that would mean i am somewhat sexually attracted to women, which i'm not, i can understand a womans beautiful body but i am not attracted to them.
     
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    I personally dont think that the percentage matters that much as long you know who you are.
    MK
     
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    I thought of claiming myself 1% straight becuase I had sex with a girl 1 time in my life. However I was drunk and don't think I will ever be in that situation again.
     
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    I'm bi-sexual - I have no idea how a person would assign a % in some scientific, objective way.

    My first sexual experiences (consensual, at a young age) were with other boys. In senior high I learned about the physical and emotional pleasures of sex with girls.

    Had a short, bad marriage, fathered one terrific son who now lives with me. I'm not interested in any serious relationship until my son finishes high school. In the mean time, I enjoy no-strings sex for fun with both genders.
     
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    Getting oral sex from gays doesn't make you gay! Are you crazy? :confused: Gays suck me off before but it doesn't make me gay because he coming to me for my dick in his mouth! You gay if you looking at him for sex, you want to kiss him --that's gay. If I go to him, that's gay! I let some ugly girls suck me too but I'm not attracted to them, and I don't fuck them.

    You are gay, str8 or bisexual going with everything but you can't be a little gay or 10% str8. What is that? :cool: Either you want a dick in your ass, your mouth, or you don't --is that simple.
     
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    A river in Egypt?
     
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    LOL. Maybe you right my friend. Still I'm not gay and will not go with a man. I like to fuck women.:wink:
     
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