I guess I used to do it all wrong. I never went around and bragged about my sec life to anyone. I just enjoyed who I was with at that particular time and left it at that. As for one night stands..I always tried to treat them like I would want to be treated. Always offered to let them stay the night,use the shower or whatever. Also and maybe I am rare but I never took a lady home when they were drunk. To me a sloppy falling down person is a huge turnoff.