You ever kiss with eyes OPEN?

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  1. earllogjam

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    Does it bother you if your partner kisses you without closing their eyes?

    Is it a sign that he's not really into you?
     
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    my experiences have been with she's and have done both and find an eyes open kiss wildly arousing! eyes, locked, lips locked, tongues entwined!!
     
  3. earllogjam

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    How do you focus when her eye balls are almost touching yours?
     
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    I've opened my eyes before while kissing to see him staring at me. Then we both pulled back, laughed and kissed some more :) I've never purposely tried to stare someone in the eyes while kissing.
     
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    Depends where the kissing is being done!
     
  6. earllogjam

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    On the lips! Errr lips on the face! lol
     
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    leading up to kiss eyes open. while smooching eyes closed.

    tried eyes open a few times, i just get cross-eyed and dizzy. :redface:
     
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    I'd take it rather the other way around, unless he were looking away :wink:

    For the record, I prefer all intimate acts (including kissing) to be done with the lights on and eyes opened. But I'm a weirdo...
     
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    Amen on the eyes open and the lights on...:wink:
     
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    Not very romantic with bright blaring lights but I agree on having enough lighting to see everything.

    But lip kissing with eyes open? Really?
     
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    I'm a weirdo too then, I like to see the shit I'm up to. I mean sure my eyes will close in bliss from time to time, but in general I like to kiss with eyes open because I'm reading the responses and body language of the person I'm kissing.

    Also I've fallen over countless times while making out (you know, in the throws of passion kinda thing), so I'd like to be sure I'm not near roaring fires, panes of glass, sharp pointy rocks etc.
     
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    I kiss with eyes closed but I open them from time to time to see her response. I like the lights on but she doesn't, so we compromise and turn the hall light on. It works. I just really like her body and I live watching all the physical cues. Just thinking about her smooth skin gets me hard as a rock.
     
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    can I get all 3 of you in 1 place and try this out on each of you?:biggrin1: (yes I am being a sex maniac looking for free kisses)

    I have kissed eyes open, eyes closed, prefer eyes open it says I'm into the man or woman enough that I like looking at them and amn't pretending I'm with another.
     
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    Yeah I'm an eyes open kisser as well. It is way more intimate imo. But I know is makes some people uncomfortable so I adjust to the situation. But I do like to do things with and to other body parts that cause their eyes to spring open wide and catch that look! :biggrin:
     
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    I used to always have my eyes open, but I had a gf who would get pissed and tell me to close them. It wasn't enough of an issue for me to fight, so I close them more now because of her complaining
     
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    I'm an eyes open kind of kisser.....I like to watch what's going on and I find it erotic..mmmmm.
     
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    I always have my eyes closed to those i like, i know it sounds cliche, but i only have them opened when the kiss was unexpected, i dont trust the other person, or im really not that into them n i was jus fakin it
     
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    dont think to much of it. i kiss with my eyes open. it means noting in terms of whether im into you or not and i dont mind if others kiss me with their eyes open.

    what i will do if a like a person, though, is to warn them that i kiss with my eyes open. had a gf once that got freaked out by the feel of my eyelashes when i blink.
     
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    Both with eyes open and closed, depends on the mood and atmo.
     
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    I don't make out passionate with my eyes open, but if I am giving my girlfriend a kiss goodbye or something, I don't really close my eyes.
     
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