It behooves us females to do personal pleasure research in order to properly inform our partners about what we like and/or require. Dolfette has claimed she prefers faking it to actually climaxing. I speculate that is because she sees this as performance art, much like a martial art--?
I know my spots, and how to get to them best, and still am continually surprised by inventive partners with new ways to combine them. As to the British media, are they not based in a land where there was a long-running production of a show entitled, No Sex Please We're British ?