hey buddy,
i think the humiliation thing is a mistake and you deserve better.
in choosing humiliation as a "niche," you're pegging yourself as someone who will never be admired or desired for your cock...and it's simply not true. what's more, this approach is only going to eat away at your self esteem, which needs fueling already. so why not just own the fact that your dick's not big and move on? have you ever seen a micro penis? i've seen a few in the gym. trust me, you don't know what small is until you've seen one of these dudes. so buck up, be yourself and keep fucking with confidence. if i were to tell you that money makes people happy, would you believe me? hopefully not. my point is that your dick, like money, is "perceived" power. there is no ideal situation. don't be ashamed, you're way too cool and too intelligent to create that. i know many women --and guys-- who would be super attracted to a smart, well-built guy like you. so balls out. it may seem like you're screwed, but i'll bet you're a pretty lucky guy who just hasn't realized it yet.