When you find out you are bigger than her ex is it fun, funny, an ego boost or just a "of course"... do you want her to say it or do you just presume so by her reaction(s) and the fact that you are huge and so it is likely just always the case... if usually/always the case, is it however "juvenile" is it still fun to hear?
You Know U R Bigger Than her Ex?'s
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Ah, I hear ya.
I would have to try really hard to be more evasive in asking the question. What seeking is the mind set for story I am writing of a true event.
A nice guy, by nice I mean cheating not his nature, cheats on his girlfriend and picks the wrong couple, the wrong guy. The "nice guy" gets back with his girlfriend and tries to forget it ever happened. But the "wrong guy" was pissed and sought revenge. It really happened in the dorm room I lived in. Okay, I was the "nice guy". The wrong guy is notoriously hung and seduces the nice guys gf. Trying to get the mindset, the thoughts that a guy with a cuersosone (sp?) size dick might have in this situation. It is ten years ago and I find the situation ironically erotic. Maybe it is because he was successful and my gf at that time was the nice librarian, studious, I was her third guy, type that became his prey.
I would have to try really hard to be more evasive in asking the question. What seeking is the mind set for story I am writing of a true event.
A nice guy, by nice I mean cheating not his nature, cheats on his girlfriend and picks the wrong couple, the wrong guy. The "nice guy" gets back with his girlfriend and tries to forget it ever happened. But the "wrong guy" was pissed and sought revenge. It really happened in the dorm room I lived in. Okay, I was the "nice guy". The wrong guy is notoriously hung and seduces the nice guys gf. Trying to get the mindset, the thoughts that a guy with a cuersosone (sp?) size dick might have in this situation. It is ten years ago and I find the situation ironically erotic. Maybe it is because he was successful and my gf at that time was the nice librarian, studious, I was her third guy, type that became his prey.
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Yeah it is an ego boost, especially when you hear, it's so big, the first time she sees it. For the last 3 I have been bigger. I know the first one that told me wasn't lying, when she said I was much bigger than her last and the second biggest she had been with, because I saw the biggest she had been with......
I'm my girlfriend's biggest, and her and her highschool ex are still talking, via facebook and AIM. She mentioned to me that he'd sort of been flirting with her and she wasn't sure what to do, and I suggested that the next time he did it, to steer the conversation to how awesome I am in bed, and how I've got a big cock. (it's not all that big, but she seems to think it is). She thought it was a good idea, and the she saved the conversation for me. He changed the subject and she didn't harp on it, but fun to know that he knows I'm bigger.
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it's empowering or something...
really, who doesn't wanna be told they're big
my girlfriend told me I was the biggest she ever had.
She did a lot of moaning too, but i'm not sure whether she meant it or not...
I'm a good 7.1 inches so I think I'd be up there...
really, who doesn't wanna be told they're big
my girlfriend told me I was the biggest she ever had.
She did a lot of moaning too, but i'm not sure whether she meant it or not...
I'm a good 7.1 inches so I think I'd be up there...
Yes and no. I mean, I had an ex-gf who was pleasently surprised when she unzipped me for the first time. Either I am big, or her last BF was small. Size really didnt matter to her and in my case, the other guy had one up on me in one department. (ironic enough)
See, she liked anal, and although we tried it, (for her sake), it just didnt work out. Too painful. She kept saying she was going to train her ass for it, but she never did. Not really my thing anyway. It was a regular thing she enjoyed with her smaller partner.
I had another who wanted me to try because she thought I would like it. Same thing. Too big for her to enjoy it. In fact, both cases, never really got it in. (And I dont really think I am all that big)
So, to the OP, it is not really an issue. Although, I would rather not know.
See, she liked anal, and although we tried it, (for her sake), it just didnt work out. Too painful. She kept saying she was going to train her ass for it, but she never did. Not really my thing anyway. It was a regular thing she enjoyed with her smaller partner.
I had another who wanted me to try because she thought I would like it. Same thing. Too big for her to enjoy it. In fact, both cases, never really got it in. (And I dont really think I am all that big)
So, to the OP, it is not really an issue. Although, I would rather not know.
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I love to tell my boyfriend about my ex-boyfriend who was hung like a beast... lol.. So it's kinda the opposite.
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Seriously, From what I've been looking at around here most girls are about 2 inches off or more.
I guess sometimes They just LOOK big.
I've had some girl say I was 8 inches long... I'm only 6:|
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Why are women so bad at judging distances
Their whole lives they were told this was six inches
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hud has it so right - lol
plus i think some not lucky "yet"... though only 6.2 by 6.1 (yes, second number right... need another .1 to be symmetrical! aargh) have been told big and even once told "no way" to begin with... now that gave me an erotic twinge given she was eager but so playful
i would luv to have a cuercusone guy follow me though and be there, the proverbial fly on wall thing since a guy like that makes mine look like that of a small gerbil
plus i think some not lucky "yet"... though only 6.2 by 6.1 (yes, second number right... need another .1 to be symmetrical! aargh) have been told big and even once told "no way" to begin with... now that gave me an erotic twinge given she was eager but so playful
i would luv to have a cuercusone guy follow me though and be there, the proverbial fly on wall thing since a guy like that makes mine look like that of a small gerbil
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She told me that I was longer than all of them and thicker than all but one, or something... but her story changed on him a couple of times, so I'm not sure. She said she was younger, so it might have seemed bigger, but it really doesn't bother me. We're literally perfectly sized. I can bottom out without being painful and there is absolutely no extra girth room.
So, I'd rather be smaller than some other guy than be painful.
So, I'd rather be smaller than some other guy than be painful.
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well, before me and my wife got together, i actually saw her hooking up with this guy mike and she and her friends have said he was her biggest and he is not as big as me, either in length, and definitely not in thickness, he was more the long and thin type. so, even though i know for sure that i am bigger, its still hot to hear her talk about it ;-)
wish had jeyden96 perspective... ah, but then would miss one of my little fantasy points... like bigjp i like to hear about it sometimes, the angle, i think, is that i enjoy a woman exploring her sexuality side, the pure sexuality side... but unlike bigjp i am not the biggest, like jeyden96 my last gf story changed but unlike jeyden96 it was not out of cloudy memory... she was "hiding" the truth from me and eventually "clarified" then was surprised that i was happy with her and our sex and just got turned on by fact that she had had one of "those" (super LP) lovers in her past that made her sing the opera in bed
it is not that complicated: it makes me feel better about myself given i am the one she is with even though she had been to the mountain top - confirmation that though size VERY important there is more to sex and much more to love than size and the f-ing part
i am not a cuckold but admit being twisted somehow with this topic... current gf is one of those real innocent types, grew up in real rural area, i am only her fifth lover... she is real cute, tomboy type... great in bed, maybe my best lover... would love to see look on her face, hear her in her first encounter with super LP... can't imagine her reaction but presume it would be erotic times ten given how she reacted to me and my penis (i was so so fortunate to follow a little guy apparently one of those micro types like Ed Powers / Randy West - "porn" stars with micro penises)
it is not that complicated: it makes me feel better about myself given i am the one she is with even though she had been to the mountain top - confirmation that though size VERY important there is more to sex and much more to love than size and the f-ing part
i am not a cuckold but admit being twisted somehow with this topic... current gf is one of those real innocent types, grew up in real rural area, i am only her fifth lover... she is real cute, tomboy type... great in bed, maybe my best lover... would love to see look on her face, hear her in her first encounter with super LP... can't imagine her reaction but presume it would be erotic times ten given how she reacted to me and my penis (i was so so fortunate to follow a little guy apparently one of those micro types like Ed Powers / Randy West - "porn" stars with micro penises)
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my last girlfriend told me i was much bigger than her last boyfriend, and the biggest she'd ever been with (though not seen). which was a nice and flattering turn on, i'll admit, but it was a much bigger turn on finding out i was the first guy to ever give her an orgasm...and for some reason as good as it felt knowing i was so much bigger and better than her last, it feels somewhat better knowing i'm also bigger and better than her current boyfriend (i guess because that knowledge is all i have while he gets to actually be with her...sigh...).
i definitely prefer hearing it in a more sincere and straight forward context as well as in the heat of passion, because the former is less likely to be JUST to boost my ego or something. i like to know it's true. and i hate faked orgasms. lol!
i definitely prefer hearing it in a more sincere and straight forward context as well as in the heat of passion, because the former is less likely to be JUST to boost my ego or something. i like to know it's true. and i hate faked orgasms. lol!
Funny, my gf describes me in the same way (hung like a beast) :biggrin1:
I cosign hud01 on post #13, that's so true.
It is definitely an ego boost to know your cock is the biggest your gf has seen, sucked, or fucked. She even mocks other penises when we watch adult entertainment, cracks me up.
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