Okay so the ex was crying last night because some lad wouldn't talk to her. The lad who seems like a nice guy, wouldn't talk to her because she took e (ecstasy) apparently by accident. He is yet another guy I havent met yet she cares about him enough to cry when he says he won't talk to her again. Her stories are interesting. So anyway today I told her she needs help. That she is immature and doesn't realise how her actions affect other people. I also told her not to do drugs, I know people that have died because of what drugs have done to them and people that never did a thing wrong (drugs or smoked) that still died. Anyway she went mad telling me I don't even know her, saying that in fact I was immature. I told her 'yes, thats it, get mad at me. The fault is in yourself'. So now its officially finished, but I did the righ thing to tell her she needs help? She smokes weed sometimes which can't be helping her moods. She really does need help, she has many psychological and physical problems/insecurities.