"You never close your eyes..."

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  1. eyemready

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    Those topping (str8 or gay): Do you look your lover in the eyes at the moment of penetration and/or orgasm or do you tend to close your eyes in your own ecstasy? I have found it intensely exciting for my lover to lock eyes with me when he delivers the pipe. What has pleased you?
     
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    I agree - looking directly into each other's eyes at orgasm is fantastic.
     
  3. Pecker

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    You'll probably find that most men like to keep the lights on so they can see their partner's reactions - whether bottoming or topping. Men are visually aroused.

    Women, on the other hand, are emotionally aroused for the most part. That's why they like to have the lights off - and their eyes closed.

    This might help to explain why more men appreciate porn than women do....

    Fella: "Man! Look at the boobs on that centerfold?!"

    Gal: "I got your boobs right here!" * frying pan hits Fella in the back of the head *
     
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    If I am with a woman, I love to watch her get lost in ecstasy as I penetrate and deliver. I really get off when I know my partner is enjoying me.
     
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    While I take great pride in getting my partner to squirm, I often find that my own pleasure is too overwhelming and I'll clench my eyes. I probably look rediculous too, you know, like I'm in immense pain when it couldn't be further from the truth.
     
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    Now, that's a face I'd like to see!
     
  7. txquis

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    I like to watch my partner's face at the moment
    of penetration,
    but if I'm on the receiving end, my eyes
    sometimes close I think...not always, though. :blink:
     
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    Herble usually turns the light out, which drives me a little nutty sometimes, so I can't tell half the time what the hell is going on. I think i'm beginning to get a complex about the whole thing.
     
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    I've very rarely ever had sex in total darkness. Turning the lights out does no good when you're having sex in the morning, afternoon, or summer's evening. ;)
    Many times at night, just a desk lamp was lit, but more often or not the room lights were on.

    As for the eyes, I love looking into a woman's eyes as I go down on her and as we are making love. If we are face-to-face when she orgasms, I think it can add to her pleasure if we are looking into each others eyes. I know it causes my dick to grow another inch as the woman I'm with is having an orgasm that I am giving to her!

    Currently single and hating it! :(

    LapDog :p
     
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    the pain behind your eyes
    I try and maintain direct eye contact all through intercourse, though if if it's a good session, sometimes I can't help but wincing for a split second.
     
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    I also think that eye contact is important. That's why I have a mirror at the head of my bed; it comes in handy when doing it doggy.
     
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    Good question ...it creeps me out when some dude is going down on me and looks me in the eyes (ewww)...when i am cumming i really dont know if i close my eyes or not (i will pay more attention now)...when i am fucking (which is usually reserved only with women) of course i look but i dont STARE. occasional glimpses is good for me.
     
  13. jonb

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    Whew! I first thought you said a mirror on the ceiling. (Now THAT would be cheesy.)
     
  14. madame_zora

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    Whew! I first thought you said a mirror on the ceiling. (Now THAT would be cheesy.)
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    Hey- cheesy would be staring in the mirror at yourself instead of your partner during orgasm!
     
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    Is this the voice of experience? ;) :p :D
     
  16. txquis

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    ME TOO.
    I thought I was the only one.
    I think people learned this from porn...rolling
    your head around in a circular motion and looking up bugeyed at
    your partner.
    blech.
     
  17. ashlar

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    I also agree with that ... to augment however, I tend to like to glance up at my partners face to see the reactions from what i'm giving him.
     
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    I've found that 99% of porn-inspired moves are instant softie-inducers. (Now, it's okay if I'm laying down and you lick the underside of the penis, but I prefer it if you start with my mouth and go down my chest and abs.)
     
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    *Pulls pen out from behind ear and takes notes on handy notepad*
     
  20. txquis

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    May I borrow your notes for the exam, Madame?
    Perhaps we need to start a study group ;)
     
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