"You never close your eyes..."

[eyemready]

Those topping (str8 or gay): Do you look your lover in the eyes at the moment of penetration and/or orgasm or do you tend to close your eyes in your own ecstasy? I have found it intensely exciting for my lover to lock eyes with me when he delivers the pipe. What has pleased you?

 

[tightfit]

I agree - looking directly into each other's eyes at orgasm is fantastic.

 

[Pecker]

You'll probably find that most men like to keep the lights on so they can see their partner's reactions - whether bottoming or topping. Men are visually aroused.

Women, on the other hand, are emotionally aroused for the most part. That's why they like to have the lights off - and their eyes closed.

This might help to explain why more men appreciate porn than women do....

Fella: "Man! Look at the boobs on that centerfold?!"

Gal: "I got your boobs right here!" * frying pan hits Fella in the back of the head *

 

[mimosurfDutch]

Originally posted by eyemready@Dec 20 2004, 04:24 AM
Those topping (str8 or gay): Do you look your lover in the eyes at the moment of penetration and/or orgasm or do you tend to close your eyes in your own ecstasy? I have found it intensely exciting for my lover to lock eyes with me when he delivers the pipe. What has pleased you?

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If I am with a woman, I love to watch her get lost in ecstasy as I penetrate and deliver. I really get off when I know my partner is enjoying me.

 

[B_Carolina]

While I take great pride in getting my partner to squirm, I often find that my own pleasure is too overwhelming and I'll clench my eyes. I probably look rediculous too, you know, like I'm in immense pain when it couldn't be further from the truth.

 

[madame_zora]

Now, that's a face I'd like to see!

 

[txquis]

I like to watch my partner's face at the moment
of penetration,
but if I'm on the receiving end, my eyes
sometimes close I think...not always, though. :blink:

 

[ashlar]

Herble usually turns the light out, which drives me a little nutty sometimes, so I can't tell half the time what the hell is going on. I think i'm beginning to get a complex about the whole thing.

 

[lapdog2001]

I've very rarely ever had sex in total darkness. Turning the lights out does no good when you're having sex in the morning, afternoon, or summer's evening.
Many times at night, just a desk lamp was lit, but more often or not the room lights were on.

As for the eyes, I love looking into a woman's eyes as I go down on her and as we are making love. If we are face-to-face when she orgasms, I think it can add to her pleasure if we are looking into each others eyes. I know it causes my dick to grow another inch as the woman I'm with is having an orgasm that I am giving to her!

Currently single and hating it!

LapDog

 

[MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK]

I try and maintain direct eye contact all through intercourse, though if if it's a good session, sometimes I can't help but wincing for a split second.

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

I also think that eye contact is important. That's why I have a mirror at the head of my bed; it comes in handy when doing it doggy.

 

[hungthick]

Originally posted by eyemready@Dec 20 2004, 04:24 AM
Those topping (str8 or gay): Do you look your lover in the eyes at the moment of penetration and/or orgasm or do you tend to close your eyes in your own ecstasy? I have found it intensely exciting for my lover to lock eyes with me when he delivers the pipe. What has pleased you?

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Good question ...it creeps me out when some dude is going down on me and looks me in the eyes (ewww)...when i am cumming i really dont know if i close my eyes or not (i will pay more attention now)...when i am fucking (which is usually reserved only with women) of course i look but i dont STARE. occasional glimpses is good for me.

 

[jonb]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Dec 22 2004, 09:15 AM
I also think that eye contact is important. That's why I have a mirror at the head of my bed; it comes in handy when doing it doggy.

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Whew! I first thought you said a mirror on the ceiling. (Now THAT would be cheesy.)

 

[madame_zora]

Originally posted by jonb+Dec 22 2004, 09:36 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(jonb &#064; Dec 22 2004, 09:36 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-DoubleMeatWhopper@Dec 22 2004, 09:15 AM
I also think that eye contact is important. That&#39;s why I have a mirror at the head of my bed; it comes in handy when doing it doggy.

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Whew&#33; I first thought you said a mirror on the ceiling. (Now THAT would be cheesy.)

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Hey- cheesy would be staring in the mirror at yourself instead of your partner during orgasm&#33;

 

[ashlar]

Originally posted by madame_zora@Dec 22 2004, 08:14 PM

Hey- cheesy would be staring in the mirror at yourself instead of your partner during orgasm&#33;

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Is this the voice of experience?

 

[txquis]

it creeps me out when some dude is going down on me and looks me in the eyes (ewww)...

ME TOO.
I thought I was the only one.
I think people learned this from porn...rolling
your head around in a circular motion and looking up bugeyed at
your partner.
blech.

 

[ashlar]

Originally posted by txquis@Dec 23 2004, 09:14 AM

it creeps me out when some dude is going down on me and looks me in the eyes (ewww)...

ME TOO.
I thought I was the only one.
I think people learned this from porn...rolling
your head around in a circular motion and looking up bugeyed at
your partner.
blech.

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I also agree with that ... to augment however, I tend to like to glance up at my partners face to see the reactions from what i&#39;m giving him.

 

[jonb]

I&#39;ve found that 99% of porn-inspired moves are instant softie-inducers. (Now, it&#39;s okay if I&#39;m laying down and you lick the underside of the penis, but I prefer it if you start with my mouth and go down my chest and abs.)

 

[madame_zora]

Originally posted by jonb@Dec 23 2004, 11:51 PM
I&#39;ve found that 99% of porn-inspired moves are instant softie-inducers. (Now, it&#39;s okay if I&#39;m laying down and you lick the underside of the penis, but I prefer it if you start with my mouth and go down my chest and abs.)

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*Pulls pen out from behind ear and takes notes on handy notepad*

 

[txquis]

May I borrow your notes for the exam, Madame?
Perhaps we need to start a study group