Here's the thing: I've always been embarassed about any crotch bulges that might be visible -- sometimes (strangely almost always when I'm on an airplane) I'll get a raging hard-on for no reason whatsoever. I can't do anything about it, except cover it up (which sometimes feels so good it gets worse), and often I'll have a natural, flacid bulge in my pants. I noticed two co-workers fixated on it over the past two weeks and my embarassment ebbed into, well, some, er, cocky excitement that I was being checked out. I imagine that girls go through this every minute of every day, with guys checking out their breasts. I love breasts, and I wholeheartedly endorse their tasteful display. So here's the question, girls: If YOU see a good looking dude with a bulge or -- as happened on the train the other day -- a full-on hard-on snaking down his thigh, do you think that's gross? Hot? Totally inappropriate? Essentially, should I cover it up, or let leaping dogs leap? P.S.: Every girl on this site rocks. (Guys do too, but obviously we'll be here). Girls -- thanks for looking, posting and lending us your eyes.