Young and used

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  1. donkeydong

    donkeydong New Member

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    Have any of you young and endowed guys ever felt like after a lot of women find out about your gift they start to use you for it? Ive been having some trouble with it recently and its really offensive.
     
  2. D_Elijah_MorganWood

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    I used to feel that way. I was young and my self-confidence was low. Consequently I ended up feeling used in many sexual situations. I got a little older and turned the tables. Bottom line: just make sure you're getting as much as you're giving.

    Exactly what is it that makes you feel used? Do they just want a quick fuck and you want more?
     
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    Yes! Thats the way i looked at it. If i know i was being used,as long as i was getting what i wanted it was cool:cool:
     
  4. donkeydong

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    there is no emotional attachment ever when i want there to be. it seems like they stick around for the sex. idk though, girls are getting more open these days and maybe they are curious?
     
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    If you meet them in a sexual context (like online), they want sex no matter what they tell you. If they've already seen your dick, you aren't going to be playing Croquet. If you want it to go a different direction, meet for coffee or something first...something that isn't at your place or hers. You can find out if you have anything in common. I used to do the reverse. I thought if I fucked their brains out, they'd stay. The only problem with that is putting your clothes on and finding out you have nothing in common.

    Am I saying that a fuck won't turn into something more? Absolutely not. It's hard to overlook your attributes and this is something I've had to deal with too. Many get stuck on Pretty boy, blonde and hung. For the longest time nobody seemed interested in anything else. I was a face, a cock and a body.

    I used to actually cry when they'd dodge my calls or just be cruel after they got what they wanted. Stand up for yourself and be honest regarding what you want. The younger you are, the harder it is to find but it's there.
     
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    Many gay men, even if they aren't size queens as such, will be more likely just to view you as a guy with a big cock rather than a nice guy who just happens to be above average
     
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    Yes I have felt that way and thats why im still a virgin.
     
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