Young Guy Attracted To Older (evidently) Straight Guy

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A genuine question..I (as the older guy in this question thread) enrolled on an online language course earlier this year. It was a mixed group, although ended up working in paired breakout online rooms with a younger guy ( I’m 50, he is 26) got on well, helped each other on assignments via email... all very normal.. although he once asked at end of lesson if I wanted to grab a beer ( this is mid covid lockdown and was busy anyway... so a polite... “like to but can’t” was my response. Anyway, in the context of language course you learn of each other’s circumstances- married, single etc. I’m married straight... he just said single, never had relationship. So fast forward to end of study meet up drink... meeting in person, I meet him and others... he’s a good looking slim guy and get the whole question in my mind vibe... is he gay ?... can’t explain it... just got that vibe and question in my mind ( this is not about any discussion about how did I assume or think that...so, don’t even open that line of questions). My question is this...if he was... is an older guy - almost twice his age - be somebody he’d even think about ? To be clear... I’m curious...and am bold enough to chat and ask him if he is gay and the kind of guy he likes.... but my question is this.... is a younger gay guy wanting an older (perhaps straight) guy.... something that exists ?
 

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When I was much younger, I was more into older guys than guys my age. My 1st boyfriend was 10 years older, but before I met him I had 3 different "friends with benefits" that were 55+, 60+ and 65+. I messed around with the 55+ the most. He was a married guy with 3 kids who weren't much younger than me. But he was coming to terms late in life about his sexuality. The 60+ was a lot of fun, he taught me so much about sex, being nice to others and not being a dick as a teenager/twenty year old. He introduced me to the 65+, but I was only with him a few times. He was nice, had a really nice body and a huge dick, but he was a bit too old for me at the time (I was probably 18 or 19). I have absolutely no regrets about any of them. I learned a lot from all of them.
 

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It certainly is possible: I wouldn't say it's common, but it most definitely happens that guys are interested in much older men. Obviously, not being in the situation, can't possibly begin to say that's the case here: he may just be friendly / lonely ... all of the above.
 
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A genuine question..I (as the older guy in this question thread) enrolled on an online language course earlier this year. It was a mixed group, although ended up working in paired breakout online rooms with a younger guy ( I’m 50, he is 26) got on well, helped each other on assignments via email... all very normal.. although he once asked at end of lesson if I wanted to grab a beer ( this is mid covid lockdown and was busy anyway... so a polite... “like to but can’t” was my response. Anyway, in the context of language course you learn of each other’s circumstances- married, single etc. I’m married straight... he just said single, never had relationship. So fast forward to end of study meet up drink... meeting in person, I meet him and others... he’s a good looking slim guy and get the whole question in my mind vibe... is he gay ?... can’t explain it... just got that vibe and question in my mind ( this is not about any discussion about how did I assume or think that...so, don’t even open that line of questions). My question is this...if he was... is an older guy - almost twice his age - be somebody he’d even think about ? To be clear... I’m curious...and am bold enough to chat and ask him if he is gay and the kind of guy he likes.... but my question is this.... is a younger gay guy wanting an older (perhaps straight) guy.... something that exists ?
as a 24 year old gay i can tell you that im sexually atracted to older men (dont care about their sexuality), i think it has to do with that person being sexually experienced, having a good body (50 year olds still look great) and the arousal of doing something thats kind of taboo (it really isnt but i think you can understand what i mean)
 

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Younger guys being into older guys is very much a common thing. But if you don’t even know if he’s gay and into older guys he might just want to reach out and make friends. It doesn’t always have to be sexual.