Now don't crucify me if I'm wrong but I've noticed in the gay community that there is that trend of young guy wanting/dating a much older guy. Why is that? I mean I would think you would want someone round your own age, near it, or at least I wouldn't wanna fuck/date a chick 30 yrs older than me... Thoughts?
Young Guys seeking Older men
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When i have worn out my girlfriends and still have a few more loads to shoot, i go on Grindr saying i want to get sucked off. The majority of the guys who beg to come suck me off are very young even though i am in my fifties.
Got to tell you the energy of an 18 year old sucking you off is amazing and they usually are happy to keep going to get the second and third load.
Got to tell you the energy of an 18 year old sucking you off is amazing and they usually are happy to keep going to get the second and third load.
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I have hooked up with a lot of younger guys and gals who were attracted to me because of my age and/or silver hair. None of them seemed to have a pronounced "daddy" issue, they just preferred someone older. One thing I have noticed, however, is that they all seemed very mature for their age; perhaps they found people their own age too puerile for their tastes. Other than that I can't really explain the phenomenon, I'm just happy for it.
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I've been fucking a cute freshman twink every week or two since fall semester began. He says he's dating uni students his age but loves his "daddy cock" best.
No i dont like guys my age. I find out that guys my age are full of them self. They think they are very good in bed good looking and they can get everyone they want. Older guys are more relaxed, not pushy and they know what they want. And they are great great lovers. i prefer an older guy over a guy my own age.
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A 20 yo student I met a coffeehouse one Sunday morning last summer has been taking my cock almost every Sunday since. I'm 55. He doesn't mind the age difference at all. He also dates guys his own age.
It has never been difficult to find younger men (truth is they find me). Millennials are more open about experiencing their sexuality than previous generations, but age difference remains a personal preference.
It has never been difficult to find younger men (truth is they find me). Millennials are more open about experiencing their sexuality than previous generations, but age difference remains a personal preference.
It never ceases to amaze me how many young guys will come onto me in the locker room at the gym. Not that I'm complaining...but, at 54, and I do look my age, I can't imagine what is going through their heads. In the steam room a couple of nights ago, there was a really cute, very fit 20-something looking to play around. Of course, I obliged, but afterwards it made me think about myself at that age. Because of the times, there was a lot more cruising of different places to find available partners, especially in the more conservative areas where I lived. But even so, I never remember being attracted to the older guys or wanting to hook up. With today's easier access to other gay or bi guys, I would have thought that the younger guys would have all the opportunities in the world for hook-ups with guys their own age. Maybe they really do like us older guys...or age just isn't an issue. I don't really know, but I do find this a very interesting post......That being said, I find myself really preferring a guy around my age now than the younger ones...there's just something about a hot, mature guy that really turns me on...
I have noticed where I live now, being a large military town, that some young soldiers seem to be interested in older guys like me. I'm retired. Early 60's. I've meet up with two guys who were in their 20's. I am not sure if it related to being in the military or not. Maybe in the military a young guy gets used to older men and is more comfortable around them? Say an older training instructor or whatever.
The strange thing is that when I was in my 20's I'm not sure I'd have been all that interested in someone my age now. Yet now that I am older I still see myself, in my mind anyway, as being younger. I guess it is all a matter of perspective.
The strange thing is that when I was in my 20's I'm not sure I'd have been all that interested in someone my age now. Yet now that I am older I still see myself, in my mind anyway, as being younger. I guess it is all a matter of perspective.
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I was only interested in older guys because I was experienced and my peers were not. I also wanted men who were very masculine (to my mind at the time) which meant hairy big and bearish. Once I experienced older men with skills I was hooked. They enjoyed my slutty willingness.
It’s a fantasy of mine to be completely ys d by an older or a few older men, 55+
I don't exclusively look for older guys, but i do tend to prefer them. Honestly i find the experience on an older bottom really makes a world of difference for how quality the sex is. like with someone my age i can edge and hold of for well over an hour sometimes two, but with experienced older bottoms usually my toes are curling and i have to focus a lot more on not cumming too quick and barely last an hour.
Am still surprised when I drop into threads like this and read of other gays wondering what is it about gay attraction that makes younger-for-older so common. Truthfully, it has nothing to do with orientation. Younger *people* and older *people* of both genders have been commonly attracted to each other since the dawn of time. It’s not a gay thing - it’s a human thing.
I've hooked up with quite a few older guys and for me it always came down to them having the experience and knowledge of m2m sex. that and something about the thick beefy bodies and hairiness just turns me on. they know how to suck a cock, rim a hole, and are able to fuck with a real power unlike younger guys... and they will be sure to tell you how best to suck there cock
As a straight married man, I can say the gym is honestly a good place to find some good looking older men lol I have a few muscular older men that I’ve gotten familiar with , go at the same time every day, and eye each other up in the showers, harmless stuff. It’s fun and very erotic. Can’t say it leads to anything physical (yet) but it’s something.
I've only ever been attracted to and had sex with older men and I guess it's a subconscious thing...there's something about a 45+ man with grey hair and a big, hard cock that's THE sexiest thing on Earth to me
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I'm 71 and don't identify as a daddy (or granddaddy), just a horny older top who likes fucking guys 50 years younger
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Earlier today I spent an amazing 2 hours with a cute 23 yr old, more than 40 years my junior.
He said he prefers older as the sex is often more passionate and enjoyable for him.
You can’t question anyone’s preferences; luckily we all have different desires.
He said he prefers older as the sex is often more passionate and enjoyable for him.
You can’t question anyone’s preferences; luckily we all have different desires.
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I’m in my 50s now and my sex life has never been so active. I was a late bloomer with all things gay, so perhaps I’m making up for lost time.
I have a list of regular fuckbuds - all are younger (some half my age). I’m a top - they are all bottoms. I’ve been fucking some of these guys for years. Among them are ...
A bi-married guy 14 years younger.
A bi-bachelor bud 19 years younger.
A gay party pal 25 years younger.
A gay grad student 28 years younger.
A gay college student 30 years younger.
Fuck photos with each of these guys can be found in my galleries if anyone is interested.
Being a top with a big dick definitely helps get things started, but I’d like to think I have other assets that keep them coming back. In addition to the great sex, we’ve developed some really satisfying relationships over time.
I’m aware of the daddy-love element in gay culture, but don’t claim to completely understand it. I occasionally hear “oh fuck me daddy” during sex but I’ve never gotten completely comfortable with the daddy label even though I know they say it affectionately.
To be honest, this younger-older attraction has taken me quite by surprise. I’m flattered by it, but also somewhat baffled. I bring experience and confidence, they bring energy and excitement. It seems to be a win-win formula, but there is something more at play here. I’ve stopped trying to figure out why two people go for each other. If it works, it works.
I have a list of regular fuckbuds - all are younger (some half my age). I’m a top - they are all bottoms. I’ve been fucking some of these guys for years. Among them are ...
A bi-married guy 14 years younger.
A bi-bachelor bud 19 years younger.
A gay party pal 25 years younger.
A gay grad student 28 years younger.
A gay college student 30 years younger.
Fuck photos with each of these guys can be found in my galleries if anyone is interested.
Being a top with a big dick definitely helps get things started, but I’d like to think I have other assets that keep them coming back. In addition to the great sex, we’ve developed some really satisfying relationships over time.
I’m aware of the daddy-love element in gay culture, but don’t claim to completely understand it. I occasionally hear “oh fuck me daddy” during sex but I’ve never gotten completely comfortable with the daddy label even though I know they say it affectionately.
To be honest, this younger-older attraction has taken me quite by surprise. I’m flattered by it, but also somewhat baffled. I bring experience and confidence, they bring energy and excitement. It seems to be a win-win formula, but there is something more at play here. I’ve stopped trying to figure out why two people go for each other. If it works, it works.
I'd love to have a nice, hot daddy. I want cuddles and he must take care of my young cock.
I already had a few sexual experiences with men between 40-50. And I was so happy. They were talented at sucking my cock and lick all my body. One of them also made me feet massages...very beautiful for me!
I already had a few sexual experiences with men between 40-50. And I was so happy. They were talented at sucking my cock and lick all my body. One of them also made me feet massages...very beautiful for me!
It makes it easier for me to submit... I prefer older men. They are more experienced and its psycologically easier for me. And a turn on.... Daddy Issues, yes.
