Young Guys seeking Older men

[BulgeGuySD]

Daddy YES, sugar NO

 

[BBB2.5]

I'm curious what is the attraction for younger guys with older guys? Not asking about Sugar Daddies, that answer is obvious..LOL

 

[Coldforce]

I'm curious what is the attraction for younger guys with older guys? Not asking about Sugar Daddies, that answer is obvious..LOL

It’s about maturity and feeling safe

 

[BBB2.5]

It’s about maturity and feeling safe

I can understand the maturity. What makes you think your safer with an older guy?

 

[Coldforce]

I can understand the maturity. What makes you think your safer with an older guy?

Not sexually I mean emotionally based on maturity less games

 

[BBB2.5]

Not sexually I mean emotionally based on maturity less games

Okay, most older guys do not have time for mind games. We pretty much know what we like and usually will be honest about that up front. ..so how old are you? and what age do you consider a daddy ?

 

[niceone0305]

My partner and I have alot in common such as our having been in religous orders me anglican and him roman.
plus a host of other commonalities.

 

[Schulteraffe]

It is not uncommon for guys with strong, inate, same-sex attraction to imprint their sexual desires on adult men when they are boys and just starting to have sexual thoughts and feelings. Maybe it’s a neighbor who cuts the grass in shorts without a shirt. Maybe it’s someone they see on tv, or in porn they are exposed to. Maybe is their first locker room experience with their dad where they see adult men naked for the first time. The idea of sexual arousal gets attached to the image of a mature, older man. And then when they reach sexual maturity, these early experiences manifest in active sexual desire for older men. Then when you add in any of a host of “father” issues that can arise between a dad who is not quite equipped to deal and a son with same sex attraction who feels alienated in some way from his father’s affection (whether true or not), and, well ... you get the point.

But all that being said, it’s not like there is something pathological about being attracted to older men, or younger adult men for that matter. Sexuality is a complex, wonderful thing. I am certain that what I describe above happens, but it’s not a bad thing. It’s just one of the countless ways that a person can form their sexual desires. And one person can have many different desires.

 

[622675]

It is not uncommon for guys with strong, inate, same-sex attraction to imprint their sexual desires on adult men when they are boys and just starting to have sexual thoughts and feelings. Maybe it’s a neighbor who cuts the grass in shorts without a shirt. Maybe it’s someone they see on tv, or in porn they are exposed to. Maybe is their first locker room experience with their dad where they see adult men naked for the first time. The idea of sexual arousal gets attached to the image of a mature, older man. And then when they reach sexual maturity, these early experiences manifest in active sexual desire for older men. Then when you add in any of a host of “father” issues that can arise between a dad who is not quite equipped to deal and a son with same sex attraction who feels alienated in some way from his father’s affection (whether true or not), and, well ... you get the point.

But all that being said, it’s not like there is something pathological about being attracted to older men, or younger adult men for that matter. Sexuality is a complex, wonderful thing. I am certain that what I describe above happens, but it’s not a bad thing. It’s just one of the countless ways that a person can form their sexual desires. And one person can have many different desires.

A study of relationships between older men with younger wives / gf s / partners would likely show many common elements that exist in older guy-younger guy attractions.

Older with younger often eliminates much of the drama and competition found in younger guy-younger guy relationships.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

Although I enjoyed being with guys in my age range when I was younger I always had a desire to be with an older man. I'm not sure where the desire started or came from but I think I wanted a partner that was more mature and experienced with relationships. The sexual compatibility has always been wonderful between me and the older men that I was involved with. Another reason is that if there comes a time when we are in conflict for something or another, I don't mind backing down to an older man. I think if I were in conflict with someone my age or younger I wouldn't be as likely to back down. I think relationships are give and take and someone has to take the submissive role in a relationship when it is called for.

 

[BulgeGuySD]

I'm curious what is the attraction for younger guys with older guys? Not asking about Sugar Daddies, that answer is obvious..LOL

He he he.... I wonder the same thing, ones I was young too, but I didn’t really like much older guys back then, I was in my 20’s I’ve always like younger guys, I being told the young guys like maturity experience, and romance ! and if you and a great shape they go crazy about hot older guys, I’m not saying I”m hot.. that will be so narcissistic In my opinion, but I being told from a 20 some I have a great ass, and bulge !! and the I’m very good kisser !!

 

[BulgeGuySD]

Although I enjoyed being with guys in my age range when I was younger I always had a desire to be with an older man. I'm not sure where the desire started or came from but I think I wanted a partner that was more mature and experienced with relationships. The sexual compatibility has always been wonderful between me and the older men that I was involved with. Another reason is that if there comes a time when we are in conflict for something or another, I don't mind backing down to an older man. I think if I were in conflict with someone my age or younger I wouldn't be as likely to back down. I think relationships are give and take and someone has to take the submissive role in a relationship when it is called for.

Although I enjoyed being with guys in my age range when I was younger I always had a desire to be with an older man. I'm not sure where the desire started or came from but I think I wanted a partner that was more mature and experienced with relationships. The sexual compatibility has always been wonderful between me and the older men that I was involved with. Another reason is that if there comes a time when we are in conflict for something or another, I don't mind backing down to an older man. I think if I were in conflict with someone my age or younger I wouldn't be as likely to back down. I think relationships are give and take and someone has to take the submissive role in a relationship when it is called for.

Although I enjoyed being with guys in my age range when I was younger I always had a desire to be with an older man. I'm not sure where the desire started or came from but I think I wanted a partner that was more mature and experienced with relationships. The sexual compatibility has always been wonderful between me and the older men that I was involved with. Another reason is that if there comes a time when we are in conflict for something or another, I don't mind backing down to an older man. I think if I were in conflict with someone my age or younger I wouldn't be as likely to back down. I think relationships are give and take and someone has to take the submissive role in a relationship when it is called for.

Well said !!

 

[aldawg]

It never ceases to amaze me how many young guys will come onto me in the locker room at the gym. Not that I'm complaining...but, at 54, and I do look my age, I can't imagine what is going through their heads. In the steam room a couple of nights ago, there was a really cute, very fit 20-something looking to play around. Of course, I obliged, but afterwards it made me think about myself at that age. Because of the times, there was a lot more cruising of different places to find available partners, especially in the more conservative areas where I lived. But even so, I never remember being attracted to the older guys or wanting to hook up. With today's easier access to other gay or bi guys, I would have thought that the younger guys would have all the opportunities in the world for hook-ups with guys their own age. Maybe they really do like us older guys...or age just isn't an issue. I don't really know, but I do find this a very interesting post......That being said, I find myself really preferring a guy around my age now than the younger ones...there's just something about a hot, mature guy that really turns me on...

 

[622675]

One of the ideas presented when older guys and younger women hook up suggest that either one or both are playing a role of “dirty old guy” or “dirty girl”. This is when the guy gets to act out his long held fantasy of having sex with “one of his students” and the girl gets to play out her fantasy of seducing her teacher.

Both individuals usually see these kinds of hookups as being a no-strings-attached relationship. They get off on thinking they are fulfilling the other players long felt desires and left them in a smoking heap.

 

[BulgeGuySD]

One of the ideas presented when older guys and younger women hook up suggest that either one or both are playing a role of “dirty old guy” or “dirty girl”. This is when the guy gets to act out his long held fantasy of having sex with “one of his students” and the girl gets to play out her fantasy of seducing her teacher.

Both individuals usually see these kinds of hookups as being a no-strings-attached relationship. They get off on thinking they are fulfilling the other players long felt desires and left them in a smoking heap.

I agreed with your assessment, but I think this is all about males, “young guys after older ones” I think heterosexual people’s relationships are completely different the homosexual ones, specially guys !
Oh byw gorgeous bootie in your hot jeans.. just saying !!

 

[uncut7in]

I'm 71 and don't identify as a daddy (or granddaddy), just a horny older top who likes fucking guys 50 years younger

 

[622675]

I'm 71 and don't identify as a daddy (or granddaddy), just a horny older top who likes fucking guys 50 years younger

Here are a couple of questions from an older guy.

How would you describe the connection that you present to younger guys? How do you represent yourself?

And what kind of thinking do you detect is going on with your younger guys? That is, why do you think they find the prospect of sex with you as an exciting option?

 

[lksbigone]

It never ceases to amaze me how many young guys will come onto me in the locker room at the gym. Not that I'm complaining...but, at 54, and I do look my age, I can't imagine what is going through their heads. In the steam room a couple of nights ago, there was a really cute, very fit 20-something looking to play around. Of course, I obliged, but afterwards it made me think about myself at that age. Because of the times, there was a lot more cruising of different places to find available partners, especially in the more conservative areas where I lived. But even so, I never remember being attracted to the older guys or wanting to hook up. With today's easier access to other gay or bi guys, I would have thought that the younger guys would have all the opportunities in the world for hook-ups with guys their own age. Maybe they really do like us older guys...or age just isn't an issue. I don't really know, but I do find this a very interesting post......That being said, I find myself really preferring a guy around my age now than the younger ones...there's just something about a hot, mature guy that really turns me on...

Maybe he just liked your sexy looking dick and was blinded to all else?

 

[uncut7in]

Here are a couple of questions from an older guy.

How would you describe the connection that you present to younger guys? How do you represent yourself?

And what kind of thinking do you detect is going on with your younger guys? That is, why do you think they find the prospect of sex with you as an exciting option?

I would say that in almost all cases it's the young guys that do all the chasing. I don't claim to be anything other than my actual age,

Here are a couple of questions from an older guy.

How would you describe the connection that you present to younger guys? How do you represent yourself?

And what kind of thinking do you detect is going on with your younger guys? That is, why do you think they find the prospect of sex with you as an exciting option?

Actually it's the young guys who usually do the chasing. I'm always honest about my age, and that I'm looking to fuck young guys. Of course it might help that I show off my big erect cock in my profile pics. I assume that the youngsters realise they will have a better time with an older and sexually experienced partner.

 

[622675]

I would say that in almost all cases it's the young guys that do all the chasing. I don't claim to be anything other than my actual age,


Actually it's the young guys who usually do the chasing. I'm always honest about my age, and that I'm looking to fuck young guys. Of course it might help that I show off my big erect cock in my profile pics. I assume that the youngsters realise they will have a better time with an older and sexually experienced partner.

So you don’t think that the guy’s interest (self-concept) or mind-play (fantasy) extends beyond the just sex itself?