Young Guys seeking Older men

Where are the good places to find older men who want to have some fun??
As a straight married man, I can say the gym is honestly a good place to find some good looking older men lol I have a few muscular older men that I’ve gotten familiar with , go at the same time every day, and eye each other up in the showers, harmless stuff. It’s fun and very erotic. Can’t say it leads to anything physical (yet) but it’s something.
 
Now don't crucify me if I'm wrong but I've noticed in the gay community that there is that trend of young guy wanting/dating a much older guy. Why is that? I mean I would think you would want someone round your own age, near it, or at least I wouldn't wanna fuck/date a chick 30 yrs older than me... Thoughts?
No i dont like guys my age. I find out that guys my age are full of them self. They think they are very good in bed good looking and they can get everyone they want. Older guys are more relaxed, not pushy and they know what they want. And they are great great lovers. i prefer an older guy over a guy my own age.
 
Hi from San Diego...Dad type here and hoping to find friends of any age to share and see the town etc....Young men can gain some wisdom and insight maybe from the dad type too..Dads too can learn from their young friends...Lets ALL STAY YOUNG as we share the wonders of the modern mens world...!!!
hey how’s it going. still live in san diego? recently moved here and would like to make some friends. young guy here
 
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I was visiting an old friend, when his neighbor knocked on his door. He need some help moving a bookcase, but my friend's back had gone out on him, so he volunteered me. The neighbor was super tall (6'4" I would guess), buffed, and handsome, with face that reminded of a young Tom Cruise, but more rugged. We got along great and more than his bookcase, such as a sofa and huge TV screen, were moved around his house. At the end, he asked me if I was gay or bi. Totally took me by surprise.

He paid me the big compliment of saying he wanted to hook with much older man that looked like me. Then he further surprised me by telling me that it was much harder to hook up with older guys than with young women, so he takes the path of less resistance. (The impression I got was that he hooks up with a different woman every night.)

I posted his observations here:

Young women Are Far Easier to Hook-Up With Than Older Men

The conclusion I have come to is that dating and hook-up apps are the decisive factor, as a super tall, super handsome guy gets 95% of women to respond (many women set a minimum height of six foot). But an older guy probably fears some sort of trick or scam, so he doesn't accept the offer. (There is also the issue of not being able to rise to the occasion.)
 
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Now don't crucify me if I'm wrong but I've noticed in the gay community that there is that trend of young guy wanting/dating a much older guy. Why is that? I mean I would think you would want someone round your own age, near it, or at least I wouldn't wanna fuck/date a chick 30 yrs older than me... Thoughts?
My attraction to men was bc of older men, so I never developed an attraction to guys my age
 
Ok so this guy at work who’s 18 has been giving me hints . Like he told me to visit the department he works in sometime and smiling very hard. He likes to talk to me when he gets the chance . I’m in my late 20s so he’s definitely too young for me . But idk how to let him down easy if he’s giving me hints . I feel like he’d be attractive if he was over or atleast 24. Though I feel kinda hypocritical cause I started dating my ex when I was 19 and he was 26. I was a sophomore in college though but still I was young. And then also this asmr manifestation lady says be open to love or. Man in whatever form it comes but he way too young . I’m not tripping am I ? Is there a perspective I’m missing? Am I a hypocrite? Also there is a possibility he wants to be friends but am I too old to be his friend ? Maybe gay mentor ? Should I just be rude and not talk to him?
 
Ok so this guy at work who’s 18 has been giving me hints . Like he told me to visit the department he works in sometime and smiling very hard. He likes to talk to me when he gets the chance . I’m in my late 20s so he’s definitely too young for me . But idk how to let him down easy if he’s giving me hints . I feel like he’d be attractive if he was over or atleast 24. Though I feel kinda hypocritical cause I started dating my ex when I was 19 and he was 26. I was a sophomore in college though but still I was young. And then also this asmr manifestation lady says be open to love or. Man in whatever form it comes but he way too young . I’m not tripping am I ? Is there a perspective I’m missing? Am I a hypocrite? Also there is a possibility he wants to be friends but am I too old to be his friend ? Maybe gay mentor ? Should I just be rude and not talk to him?
Given my track record with older guys, I'm blown away that you think you’re too old for an 18 year old lol.
 
Given my track record with older guys, I'm blown away that you think you’re too old for an 18 year old lol.
Idk I’m conflicted ngl he’s cute and I like the way he talks but idk . Idk if he’s even into guys or if he’s just a flirt . Idk 18 is kind young to me .