Young Guys seeking Older men

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There is 14 years between my husband and myself. In our large circle of friends most couples are within 5 years of each other. We are atypical in our group.
When I was single it seemed that most of the guys looking for older wanted someone with a big checkbook. I never wanted to be a sugar daddy but that’s what some guys want and that’s what some guys want to be.
My husband and I drew up a prenuptial agreement more like a will than anything else when we married. We were both well established with significant resources and found it simpler.
That being said, I now have no heirs so I’ve changed my will so that my stepson is the sole beneficiary which really negates the prenuptial.
 
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I generally find older guys more attractive and MATURE. I usually only date older guys 30+ and I'm in my early 20's. I'm currently dating someone 26 years older than me and it's not because of money.
Scot u sound very if u ever are looking in the future contact me my name is John 337-452-0033
 
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When I was younger I never really thought about older men. I was just focused on my age range. Never saw it as an option. Now in my early 50s, I’m seeing a fair number of younger guys hit on me. Like late 20s - late 30s. They don’t want a sugar daddy, just a daddy. It’s flattering as fhuck and sometimes given their incredible builds it’s intimidating. But I figure part of the attraction must be confidence so I don’t verbalize that insecurity. Hypothetically, for me in this scenario, I wouldn’t see this kind of thing as not lasting. I’d fear in ten years they’d move on and I’d be hurt. I mean I’m not looking. I’m with someone. But I don’t think I could do it given the chance,
 

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Does 44 count as a daddy?
Maybe... I’m
41.... and I being called daddy, or Papi... not sure if it was a term of endearment or an adage reaffirmation ... I gues both, he was 24... !
 
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I've always been drawn to older guys. I fooled around with an old friend earlier this week after being bored and horny. He's 60 and in terrific shape. We both just needed to scratch an itch. I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, but would prefer to be with someone who is educated and professional.
 
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The few men that I’ve been with (over the past 10-15 years) were all much older than me (60’s being the oldest). I preferred them because of their maturity, patience and experience. That’s not to say that younger men don’t have those traits because some do, but I’m attracted to the older types.

Now that I’m in my forties, I am the older guy and have had younger men interested in me, but I’m still drawn to men my age and older :)