younger guys (18-20) with older men over 31

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It's nice to hear that there are younger guys genuinely interested in older men. I've been jerked around a few times by younger guys - just as I'm sure younger guys (as mentioned) have been jerked around by older guys. I became very careful, cautious and callus as some guys saw $$$ signs and I ended up having my wallet receiving more loved than I did. I'd enjoy meeting an independent young guy who can hold his own, hold a job and be my companion, friend and lover. Maybe now in the US I have a better chance of meeting someone like that.
 

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When I was 48 I had a 18 year old guy asking me out. I was afraid I would screw him up some how. So I did a bunch of research on line. And there was a study done by Stanford University that was very helpful. It interviewed younger men who had a older partner. It interviewed younger women who had had a older partner. The relationship had to have ended at least 5 years ago so that the emotional stuff was gone. It concluded that younger women were a trophy on the older guys arm. He didn't care about her opinions or wants. The younger guy with the older guy found that it was the younger guys best relationship. He had many opportunities he would not have had. (of course there were some good and bad, like any study) so I went a head and dated the 18 year old for 5 years. He learned a lot of life skills. He taught me a lot about the culture of young 20 year olds. We had a lot of fun. But, after 5 years he felt he had to go. He needed to learn to pay bills on his own. He wanted to learn where women fit in his life, and he had to come to terms with his religious mother.
 

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Preferably older when it comes to guys. They're almost always more mature and don't play games.

Plus, just less drama.
 

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I've hooked up with quite a few guys (and gals, for that matter) who were easily young enough to be my offspring and who were attracted to me, in part, because of my age. Invariably I found them to be exceptionally mature for their years and I've always assumed that a big part of their younger-for-older involvement had to do with maturity. If there were any "daddy" issues involved in those relationships they certainly weren't blatant or obvious; no role play, acting out or anything of that sort. While I have no particular age preference of my own I have to admit that a youthful body and spirited zest for life together with a mature demeanor is a hard combination to beat in a companion of either sex.
 

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As my age increases, it seem the age of guys hitting me up decreases.. I tend to find younger men that prefer an older man, are much more mature than their peers.
 

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I like older, as a 19 year old for several reasons.

1. Usually more natural and down to earth, they put me at ease and make me feel comfortable.
2. I find older guys incredibly sexy, mature and real turn on.
3. They are more comfortable with themshelves.
4. They know what they want.
etc.
etc.

Same for me