Hi this should maybe be in the relationships section but I like to get equal responses from males and females so I posted here. My question is if youre a guy who likes older women, or a woman who likes younger guys, what makes you into that? OK, Im 23 (almost 24) and for a couple yrs I've been into older women. Overall Ive been with about a dozen women with most of them in the 30-40 range. A lot of women in that age really let themselves go but the ones that stay in shape I find super hot. Lately I was thinking about why Im so into older women and I was thinking maybe women in that age are so appreciative (in my experience). What really gets me going is when a woman lays the compliments on thick. Like the last couple months Ive been getting with this woman who drives me crazy. She's the oldest woman Ive had sex with (42) but she looks damn good. Like from her face you can kinda tell her age but her body looks way younger. But my point is I get really turned on by how she pads my ego. Like shes a definite size queen and shes always saying how great my size is (8 in.) and saying these totally hot things to me, like about how great I am and how lucky she is to be getting with me. She's good with words too and she says this great stuff like the other day she told me her body screams with joy when she knows I'm coming. Now I'm not trying to say I'm so great I'm just saying I'm starting to notice the women I get really super hot for are always the ones who pad my ego like that, so maybe I'm thinking I'm into older women because they're so appreciative? With her maybe its also because shes such a nice, polite person. Like she looks all nice and proper so its really hot when were behind closed doors and she gets like that. Also I was thinking I must be insecure if I get so crazy about a woman pumping me up like that, but that's just me. So anyway that's my deal, but Im wondering why people are into older women and also why women are into younger guys. Thanks.