Younger men into older men

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  1. posting4745

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    As a man in my late, late 40's I occasionally run into men in their early to mid-30's and sometimes early 20's that have a thing for men older than 40. As I am someone who is wired to find men in their early 20's very hot, I am not sure I understand the reverse. Can someone tell me what the attraction for younger men to average men in the late 40s and 50s? I would like some insight if you care to share. thanks!
     
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    Unresolved birth-family father issues likely play a role. Otherwise, everyone at any age can use a mentor and who better than an experienced somewhat older man.
     
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    I would enjoy it and not worry too much.

    I have a relative who met his partner when he was in his early 20's and the partner was in his mid 40's they have now been together for almost 20 years.

    Never asked why, figured it wasn't my business.
     
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    You are my clone!
     
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    1. Daddy issues.
    2. The mature manliness associated with age. That's my take on it...
     
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    I am a younger man that loves older women to death. I always have and it started when I was a child and I would go with my mother to the bank every week. The women at the bank were always very pretty and wore dresses, pantyhose, and lots of makeup. I thought they all looked like super models. I would always want to go see all of them and sometimes sit at their desk in one of the customer chairs and talk with them. I also enjoyed to crawl around on the floor and look at their shoes and feet. Older women are sexy, and their experience and wisdom is somewhat intimidating. As I grew older I had relationships with many different types of women. I found older girls to be more of a challenge and I genuinely enjoyed serving them and pleasing them. I married a woman that is 8 years older than me. She is a salse represenative for an optical company. She travels all over the state and looks like a supermodel everyday. To me even after 3 and a half years, she still is exciting and has mystique. I take great pride and comfort in pleasing her and making her happy. I never felt that way with girls my own age. I always tired of them quickly. Older women are majestic, confident, and know what they want. They are not afraid to be themself, and most of the time are not ashamed or afraid to get what they want to be happy. Also older women's bodys are sexier to me.
     
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    I can't begin to explain why it happens; I can only say that I am very aware that the attraction of some young men continues on even toward men of my age!
     
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    I am 37 and I occasionally run into 18 - 20 year olds who are totally into me. One thing I have noticed is that most of them are either children of single moms and did not have a dad around or had a dad who was an alcoholic, or abused them verbally and or physically. I honestly think these kids are seeking a loving relationship with an older man because they never had any kind of relationship with their father.
     
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    no idea why, but i LOVE older guys! its always seemed kinda taboo...
     
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    Nailed it!
     
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    I'm totally into older guys.
    Never had a problem with my dad or any other older male figure in mylife.
    I love the way older mens bodys are shaped and the maturity is a huge turn on.
    Also when I was younger I always looked at adult gay porn pics on the computer probably why I like them more than young guys or guys my age.
    I'm 21 partner is almost thirty, we also like to envite olde men in there 40's to join us.
    I kinda think it's funny my bf likes older and younger.
     
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    Maturity and experience, somebody to take care of them and show them the ropes.
     
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    I've always been attracted to older men - their body hair, mature physiques. My partner is 12 years older than I am - we've been together for 13+ years - met when I was in early 40s and he was in mid 50s. All that said, as I get older, I find younger men to be much more attractive than I did when I was younger.
     
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    I like younger, just because their skin is so smooth and they get so excited!
     
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    Thank God there are those who prefer older men. I get so pissed looking at Craigslist ads "under 30" only.
     
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    The best sex have ever had was with guys over 40. Hence I have started to date older guys only. My BF's handsome, masculine, intelligent and he's got more to offer than those Perez Hilton's clones.
     
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    When I was in my 20's I liked them in their forties and now in my advancing years I still like them in their 40's..........I think I need to move on.
     
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    Same here. I met this dude who was 20 and we were making out and feeling each other up and I unzipped his jeans stuck my hand in and and felt his cock through his boxers and he was so excited he immediately came in his pants. The kid was VERY embarrassed but I thought it was totally HOT! Of course he stayed hard and was ready to go again in less than 5 minutes.
     
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    I do love older men for sure they know how to keep u hotter and can make things between the sheets better
     
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    I am 72 years olde. Age isn't important to me, but physical condition and how people act IS important to me.

    Unfortunately, too many guys let themselves go to pot as they age. Thus, most older men are unfit and look it. Also, too many older men act old, partly because they have permitted themselves to become unfit.

    I'm not saying that older men should wear clothing more suited to 20 year olds and pretend to be unable to remember the Korean war or WWII; that would be ridiculous. There is such a thing as aging gracefully. But surely they can continue to ride a bicycle, hike long distances, swim, and learn to use a computer if they don't already know how.

    I have a neighbor who is 8 years younger than I. He finds it a hardship to walk more than two blocks and thinks that it's remarkable that I can easily ride a bicycle for > 20 miles, hike long distances, and climb mountains. He could do all those things too if he had kept himself fit instead of becoming obese.

    From my gallery, I think that I look reasonably fit; it's no accident.
     
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