Younger men into older men

[Lex]

As a man in my late, late 40's I occasionally run into men in their early to mid-30's and sometimes early 20's that have a thing for men older than 40. As I am someone who is wired to find men in their early 20's very hot, I am not sure I understand the reverse. Can someone tell me what the attraction for younger men to average men in the late 40s and 50s? I would like some insight if you care to share. thanks!

All my BFs have been in their 40s and while I have had sex with men of between 22-60, I lean towards the older men for relationships. For me, I love the look and sensibility of a mature man (not saying a younger, experienced guy can't be the same), but there is something about a masculine man who has lived life that I find exhilarating. My Hubby is ten years older than I.

I don't know that I could describe it any more than you can describe your attraction to younger men. It is what it is and we like what we like. Right?

 

[basque9]

I am 72 years olde. Age isn't important to me, but physical condition and how people act IS important to me.

Unfortunately, too many guys let themselves go to pot as they age. Thus, most older men are unfit and look it. Also, too many older men act old, partly because they have permitted themselves to become unfit..........
From my gallery, I think that I look reasonably fit; it's no accident.

As a guy 5 years your senior, I second your remarks..biking and swimming do work wonders.....you look mighty fit indeed! I swim several hundred miles every year and I enjoy every stroke!

 

[D_CountdeGrandePinja]

we are never too old to learn how to better care for ourselves - all you younger guys:

learn and listen!

 

[onewatcher]

I'm 55 and date a 43 yr old. My guy before him was 35. Even dated a 21 yr old who was very mature for his age. I don't think it's years that matter.

 

[pwrdick]

I started my porn work in my mid-40's and ended up doing more because I really fit the bill as a 'daddy'. And the producer encouraged that by hooking me almost always with guys in their 20's. And most of the fans I developed were younger men as well.

But I understand the appeal. When I was younger I also craved the maturity and strength of men older than me. I do have to note that I never had a great relationship with my father, but not sure how much that truly came into play.

 

[25300]

As a man in my late, late 40's I occasionally run into men in their early to mid-30's and sometimes early 20's that have a thing for men older than 40. As I am someone who is wired to find men in their early 20's very hot, I am not sure I understand the reverse. Can someone tell me what the attraction for younger men to average men in the late 40s and 50s? I would like some insight if you care to share. thanks!

I am attracted to older men and I'm currently after a man who is a decade my senior. I don't seek older for their experience. My parents are split, but my dad was always there, so i'm not seeing the missing father relationship link here. It's just that older men do have a more masculine appearance. Also, older men are calmer and can (most of the time) hold an interesting conversation, which is sometimes hard with someone my own age. That's not to say I would turn down someone my own age or younger, but just that my range in age preference is wider than usual, lol. :wink:

 

[hunkydory]

I'm totally into older guys.
Never had a problem with my dad or any other older male figure in mylife.
I love the way older mens bodys are shaped and the maturity is a huge turn on.
Also when I was younger I always looked at adult gay porn pics on the computer probably why I like them more than young guys or guys my age.
I'm 21 partner is almost thirty, we also like to envite olde men in there 40's to join us.
I kinda think it's funny my bf likes older and younger.

Damn! I think I am in the old man category that you guys invite over - ouch!