I love how this forum doesn’t have the back & forth drama the other forums do with the labels and dragging up the same topics.
I’m loving the stories of how some of you guys either come to terms with your Bi-Side, & or always had Bi- inclinations, sex drives and never acted on them.
That said, I’m in my final descent from the military / approaching regiment. & I also work with both civilians & military.
We have a unique culture of shit talking Alpha males.
Some, who’s sexuality you would never question them being anything other than a heterosexual, will overtly joke & or brag about doing sexual things with a dude, like it’s a new acquisition or workout regimen.
& Others, have secretly hooked up with gay friends of mine I know.
My query is this.
Given where you are with your understanding & conformability of your sexual attractions, what advice would you give to a friend who dropped hints he was either struggling with or was curious in pursing the same path?
2) Do you have any stories about a guy you’re close to, whom, based on where you are now, you can say to yourself.
“Oh yeah, I can tell what’s up with him?
Been there, done that same M.O.”
or
“I can tell by (fill in the blank), it’s just a matter of time before he starts exploring.
Because I’ve been there.”
I’m loving the stories of how some of you guys either come to terms with your Bi-Side, & or always had Bi- inclinations, sex drives and never acted on them.
That said, I’m in my final descent from the military / approaching regiment. & I also work with both civilians & military.
We have a unique culture of shit talking Alpha males.
Some, who’s sexuality you would never question them being anything other than a heterosexual, will overtly joke & or brag about doing sexual things with a dude, like it’s a new acquisition or workout regimen.
& Others, have secretly hooked up with gay friends of mine I know.
My query is this.
Given where you are with your understanding & conformability of your sexual attractions, what advice would you give to a friend who dropped hints he was either struggling with or was curious in pursing the same path?
2) Do you have any stories about a guy you’re close to, whom, based on where you are now, you can say to yourself.
“Oh yeah, I can tell what’s up with him?
Been there, done that same M.O.”
or
“I can tell by (fill in the blank), it’s just a matter of time before he starts exploring.
Because I’ve been there.”