Your bulge.

[Frankgr]

Are you conscious about your bulge when you're out and about? Maybe if you're wearing tight sweatpants or no underwear at all and the outline is visible through your clothes. One of the reasons I don't like tight underwear or swimwear like speedos. I feel like I'm always making sure I'm not "bulging" but there are guys out there who either don't know they are bulging or don't care. Which one is you and what are your thoughts on it?

 

[Frankgr]

I also wonder about how HS and College swimmers/wrestles feel about this. I'm sure they don't think about it as it is just part of their routine and uniform. Maybe same for body builders.

 

[pdxjoe]

For me I am from the school of I am male and have a set of testies and penis between my legs that are part of who I am. I therefore do not pay any mind to my bulge in any type of pant, short or swimwear. I don't try to accent what I have but I don't hide it. Being of an older generation who were not thinking about sex 24/7 and did not worry that our gender traits might offend someone. For the most part we don't wear see thru or spray on tight clothing. Outline or bulge are one thing, circ statics is another for me that is going too far in showing your assets.

 

[marlins]

I let it happen as it should and wants to - it has a mind of it's own.... commando, so that helps....

 

[At.your.cervix]

I try to somewhat conceal what I'm carrying around, for several reasons. First, in my late teens I used to show it off as a way to attract attention. Back then I'd wear tight jeans and no underwear, with my dick just hanging down one thigh or the other--it embarrasses me now just to say it. As my needs for sexual reassurance passed, the drawbacks to such brazen exhibition far outweighed the benefits, and I did a 180 on concealing my package. Now, I typically wear looser pants, typically jeans, and briefs; there is a bulge, but it's somewhat concealed, and not nearly as obscene as a low hanging dick down my pants leg. Second, having everyone who I know and work with be aware that I've got a pretty far above average sized cock could easily lead to some serious professional complications for me, so I just don't want to go there. Another reason I don't show it off, or wear Speedo's is that I just find it really tacky. Ultimately, I now don't go out of my way to appear like a Ken doll, nor do I flaunt my package either.

 

[At.your.cervix]

OK, a funny story from grad school. One year there was a conference in a city a few hundred miles away, and several of my female peers were going, and asked if I wanted to ride with them and share a room; it'd be me and four women. They said that they could "trust me," unlike some of the other male grad students in our program. I took it as a compliment, and said yeah, I'd go with them. We had two beds in the room and the hotel was out of roll away beds, so I volunteered to sleep on the floor in the sweat pants and T shirt I had brought with me. When I woke the next morning, I was greeted with four sets of eyes staring down at me. Apparently I had kicked off my blanket and was just sleeping on my back, but I hadn't worn any underwear beneath my sweat pants (I never do when I'm at home) and was sporting a somewhat impressive "morning wood" sticking straight up in the air. I tried to cover it up, but there was no way that was doable, and just made a quick retreat to the bathroom. The girls made fun of it the entire conference, and way home.

 

[Notaes]

when and if I have a bulge I really don't care. Men have cocks and they have a mind of there own. I wish that was all I had to be concerned about was whether or not my cock was hard or was showing an indention through my pants. Life would be much sweeter if that was all I had to worry about.

 

[Masterpumper]

For me I am from the school of I am male and have a set of testies and penis between my legs that are part of who I am. I therefore do not pay any mind to my bulge in any type of pant, short or swimwear. I don't try to accent what I have but I don't hide it. Being of an older generation who were not thinking about sex 24/7 and did not worry that our gender traits might offend someone. For the most part we don't wear see thru or spray on tight clothing. Outline or bulge are one thing, circ statics is another for me that is going too far in showing your assets.

Circ static? Huh?

 

[Jjz1109]

I guess we all want to look like men, and show what's appropriate. I have some nice suits and slacks that definetly hug / hang well enough to show I'm a man, but are appropriate in the business environment in which I work. And I fee equally comfortable when I go for drinks after work with a more relaxed, mixed age crowd. I also have jeans that are ceratinly more form fitting, but they're for weekends and evenings out, which again, is appropriate in the settings I wear them.

 

[igotthebigone]

I do all I can not to show anything

 

[efrmtexas87]

I am always aware of my bulge. I have a small frame, so it looks even bigger. To hide it, I wear baggier clothes and snugger underwear. If I wear anything snug, it will show. Just part of having a nice size no bragging at all. I honestly prefer boxers/commando, but sometimes it looks too obscene.

 

[pdxjoe]

Circ static? Huh?

My bad spelling, missed it when I proof read my post . What I was trying to say was, you can see if it is cut or uncut through the clothes.

 

[bigbucky]

I try to "carry" myself with a not too obvious bulge. I have been on both side of the bulge observers. if it's cold out and I'm in that "shrunken" state, I have heard, "feel sorry for you wife" from more than one gal, and other times when it's just a big floppy, I have heard. "just WHAT do you have in your pants?"

 

[Masterpumper]

I am always aware of my bulge. I have a small frame, so it looks even bigger. To hide it, I wear baggier clothes and snugger underwear. If I wear anything snug, it will show. Just part of having a nice size no bragging at all. I honestly prefer boxers/commando, but sometimes it looks too obscene.

Well a cut bulge looks different from an uncut. If you can see the head VPL it's usually cut...mine is visible as I refuse t9 wear baggy clothes.

 

[mako shark]

I don't make a point of it to show off but when you have my combination of 28" thighs and a large package (especially the balls) what do you do? I buy baggy pants and my gf rides me constantly about getting tighter ones... I show her why and she says "who cares!!"

 

[ronin001]

I do not own sweat pants and I have no memory of ever going outside without wearing underwear. Thankfully the clothes I wear outside fit me well, including in the crotch area. If a certain designers clothes do not fit me the way I like, I do not wear them. Thankfully I am not cursed with more penis than my underwear can handle, good luck to those who are

 

[efrmtexas87]

Well a cut bulge looks different from an uncut. If you can see the head VPL it's usually cut...mine is visible as I refuse t9 wear baggy clothes.

I see. I don't normally pay attention to my own bulge, because I never really thought about it, until I started to notice every woman I come across glances at my dick. I now understand women with big boobs mean when they get stared at lol.

 

[TexanStar]

I'm not aware of my pants having a noticable bulge unless I've got an erection.

Having an erection in public always makes me unconfomfortable even though I'm clothed. It happens from time to time, and I'll generally try to position whatever's available in front of me (shopping cart, laptop bag, etc) to avoid showing off. I get pretty self conscious that any one noticing might think me some pervert.

When I'm not erect, if someone can make out the size of my package through my clothing... whatever. I don't go out of the way to hide it or show off.

 

[975547]

I'm in the I don't care camp. I have a dick, deal with it.

 

[MisterVIP]

I don't pay any attention to it. I sometimes notice when I get dressed, but I don't dwell on it.

Ladies I've been friends with with have commented that they've noticed other women checking me out, though and then they'd admit they look themselves.