I'm a huge shooter myself, and love other huge shooters, but I have very different perspectives on me versus them.
Personally I love being a huge shooter because it feels amazing (though admittedly I can't speak to how it feels for guys who aren't huge shooters; for all I know it's the same feeling). On an average day, if I haven't cum for at least 24 hours, when I shoot it typically goes about 2 feet or so and really pumps out. If I'm super turned on, or if I've been edging for a while, it's significantly more intense - I've given myself facials numerous times, and if on my back have hit the wall behind my head too. Even if I've cum once in 24 hours already, the quantity and intensity is less but I still get 8-12 inches in distance. It takes me a long time to cum (and longer with partners) so that might have something to do with it. So I love it... but it's also problematic. My orgasms are so intense that it unfortunately makes me one of those bottoms that can't stand to continue to be fucked after I cum. I'm not talking about "I just don't like it" I mean I can't stand it, my body literally recoils and sensory overload kicks in where even being touched can feel irritating.
So I learned a while back, and after time learned to really enjoy the fuck out of not cumming during sex (at the end sure, or afterward, but not during). It's helped me really learn how to focus on the guy, and on taking pleasure from getting him off, and from the sensations in my hole if I'm being fucked. Concentrating on not just the pleasure I'm getting from my hole and prostate, but also on making myself really open to the cocks fucking me (literally and emotionally/psychologically) has made me I think a damn good bottom. I like to be upfront with guys about me not requiring (or wanting) reciprocation; my regular fuckbuds know it and are cool with it, and if a new guy hits me up on Scruff or Grindr, or if I'm asked about it or having a sex-focused discussion with a guy, I put it out there that if/when a guy has sex with me the focus will be 100% on him, his cock, getting him off, and making him cum. He can lay back and let me worship and suck his cock until he busts a fat nut in my mouth, or I can spread my legs and present my hole for him to fuck, and encourage him to use my hole to build himself up to a super intense orgasm before unloading balls deep. But he has to be cool with that being it and not doing anything else "for" me to get me off, because if I cum I can't handle the intensity.
Thankfully many guys seem to be understanding about it, and are more than happy to pleasure me simply by fucking my hole, or letting me suck them off. I'm super chill but also super passionately top-focused, which I think creates a nice atmosphere for a lot of guys (especially if they primarily identify as straight/curious/hetero-side-of-bi) because it takes the pressure off of having to worry about anything other than maximizing their pleasure with my mouth or hole and getting their nut out.
As for guys who are heavy shooters... I freaking love them lol. There's just something super hot about making a guy not only shoot a large quantity of thick cum, but shoot really powerfully. It fucking feels amazing too. The guy I lost my V card to, we pretty much spent a full summer fucking at least every other day. I knew he was a big shooter already, because in our first hook up we jerked each other off, and then I moved up to sucking him off whenever we'd play, and he consistently shot loads like I did. The first time we fucked, when he came I could totally feel it and sense it; his cock would spasm like crazy, throbbing and pulsing in my hole while I sensed the warm wet feeling of his cum in me. Coupled with the way he'd grunt and moan when he'd bust it was sublime and made me feel fantastic.
Once I'd been fucked by a few more guys I quickly realized I wouldn't and couldn't always get that uniquely hot feeling of a guy pumping a heavy load into me; I was still super into getting fucked and making them cum so it wasn't ever disappointing, but it made me especially crave when I'd get fucked by guys who are heavy shooters. It's also, I'm realizing now, one of the reasons I started concentrating and building up my muscle control so I could gently but firmly milk guys' cocks with my hole; not just to make it feel extra hot for them but so I could try to build them to cumming extra hard. I've managed - not all the time obviously but it's definitely happened - to make guys who are't usually heavy shooters blow bigger and more powerful loads like that.