Do any women have insights they gained from being with a man before and after the man has actively exercised his kegel muscles? My wife and I are in our mid twenties and have an active sex life, we have not been able to have her reach orgasm though and she can not reach it on her own(so that is one area we are working on).One of the things that she has mentioned that I could do to help is to maintain an extremely strong and large erection for longer, she has also said that she would enjoy if it I could swell and flex my penis they way I do as I get closer to orgasm for the whole duration. I can maintain this state for maybe 10 minutes max now and she would like me to regularly maintain it for 30 minutes. Do you have experience where the ability of a man being able to maintain this level for a long time helped you to orgasm when you otherwise could not? Do you have ideas of exercises that could help me develop this strength? Since she has mentioned this I have been flexing, “fluttering”, and contracting and holding my PC muscle as I have read to do elsewhere. Any input (or just stories) from people would be great!