Another thread got me wondering...
Do you have fantasies or desires but hesitate to indulge them because you are concerned about "what people will think" or because, even by yourself, you would be embarrassed?
I've heard comments from straight guys, for instance, who say "I wonder what it would be like to have some anal stimulation during sex, but I think it would make me feel gay" or women say "I really like porn, but I won't buy it because I'm embarrassed that the person in the store will think I'm a pervert, and I certainly don't want my mailman to deliver something like that to my door...."
Personally, I used to have some hangups like this, but taught myself years ago to get over it. I don't do things I would be embarrassed about, nor am I ashamed of any of my "preferences." Anyone else have comments?
Do you have fantasies or desires but hesitate to indulge them because you are concerned about "what people will think" or because, even by yourself, you would be embarrassed?
I've heard comments from straight guys, for instance, who say "I wonder what it would be like to have some anal stimulation during sex, but I think it would make me feel gay" or women say "I really like porn, but I won't buy it because I'm embarrassed that the person in the store will think I'm a pervert, and I certainly don't want my mailman to deliver something like that to my door...."
Personally, I used to have some hangups like this, but taught myself years ago to get over it. I don't do things I would be embarrassed about, nor am I ashamed of any of my "preferences." Anyone else have comments?