I am in a relationship now and I am trying to understand more how to appeal to my girl's fantasies.. trying to understand what motivates women more sexually.. not physically so much but mentally and emotionally. So what I am wondering is what women fantasize about most? Do you have any favorite erotic stories or fantasies? I don't mean physical stuff like grabbing me here or licking me there.. but scenarios or what makes you find your lover sexy. Like sometimes you hear that the sexiest thing their guy can do for them is the dishes or laundry... being considerate of them etc. Is this for real or just a joke. Basically I just don't want to rely on physical.. my size.. but want to try to be everything I can for her.