I once dated a guy who was just under 10", but even that didn't strike me as "huge" because flacid he was maybe 6" big and I didn't realize how big he was the first few times because he was inside me. He filled me up, but I guess I accomodated him pretty easily because it didn't seem out of the ordinary compared to other (average-sized) guys I had slept with. When I finally saw him erect in my hands (maybe our 5th or 6th time in bed) I was like "wow" -- I didn't say that, because I didn't want him to think I was an idiot or fixated on his cock or whatever. He liked it when I complimented his size a few times, but for the most part, he wasn't obsessed with it. I kinda liked that -- it's OK for him or his partner to joke about it or have fun with it, but I would have hated for his cock to be the be all and end all of all things sexual with us.
My currently endowed partner is my husband, he's just under/over (it changes depending on when I measure him) 13". So he is VERY large, most of my other men were all average outside of the guy I described above.
The first time I saw my dh naked was our first time in bed together; we had been dating about 2 months before we had sex. He told me he had something he wanted to tell me; I had no idea. When he approached the bed naked I saw what looked like about 20 pounds of swinging meat coming at me and I was like "OH MY GOD!!" I asked him if "that" was what he wanted to tell me and he said no -- at this point, I was very confused. As I've mentioned before, my husband-to-be was not very sexually experienced despite being very large, and he wanted to tell me that. Even when he told me I thought it might be a line -- like most women, I figured a guy with a large cock probably had plenty of partners -- but it soon became apparent that he was letting me take all the initiative and he was not sure of what to do or when to do it. I'm glad I didn't say "SURE" or something sarcastic when he told me he was not very good in bed, because as it turned out, he was right.
Since then, we got married and while he's still not a great lover, he has his moments. I love him dearly and wouldn't trade him for the best bed partner in the world. It's kinda fun to help him along and to be the woman who teaches and instructs him in lovemaking; he's "unspoiled" and not demanding. He's also open to any positions or things I suggest (though he has some definite dislikes, which for the most part, are thankfully things I don't like, either).
If I've learned one thing about being married to a super-hung guy it's that not all of them are bedding lots of women. That's probably true of guys with average-sized cocks as well.
So I would say to any woman: a guy with a large cock may turn out to be a great lover but don't bet the farm on it. IMO, better to be inexperienced with a large cock than inexperienced with a small cock (my husband ALWAYS fills and stretches me, which at least gives me plenty of physical pleasure). Inexperienced with a large cock vs. experienced with a small one? Well, I guess most would probably prefer the latter.
For me, I have what I have and I'm happy with it. Like I say to myself, I spend a few hours a week in bed with him and alot more time with him outside of bed, so to judge my happiness and marriage strictly by my sex life would be kind of shallow, IMO.
My currently endowed partner is my husband, he's just under/over (it changes depending on when I measure him) 13". So he is VERY large, most of my other men were all average outside of the guy I described above.
The first time I saw my dh naked was our first time in bed together; we had been dating about 2 months before we had sex. He told me he had something he wanted to tell me; I had no idea. When he approached the bed naked I saw what looked like about 20 pounds of swinging meat coming at me and I was like "OH MY GOD!!" I asked him if "that" was what he wanted to tell me and he said no -- at this point, I was very confused. As I've mentioned before, my husband-to-be was not very sexually experienced despite being very large, and he wanted to tell me that. Even when he told me I thought it might be a line -- like most women, I figured a guy with a large cock probably had plenty of partners -- but it soon became apparent that he was letting me take all the initiative and he was not sure of what to do or when to do it. I'm glad I didn't say "SURE" or something sarcastic when he told me he was not very good in bed, because as it turned out, he was right.
Since then, we got married and while he's still not a great lover, he has his moments. I love him dearly and wouldn't trade him for the best bed partner in the world. It's kinda fun to help him along and to be the woman who teaches and instructs him in lovemaking; he's "unspoiled" and not demanding. He's also open to any positions or things I suggest (though he has some definite dislikes, which for the most part, are thankfully things I don't like, either).
If I've learned one thing about being married to a super-hung guy it's that not all of them are bedding lots of women. That's probably true of guys with average-sized cocks as well.
So I would say to any woman: a guy with a large cock may turn out to be a great lover but don't bet the farm on it. IMO, better to be inexperienced with a large cock than inexperienced with a small cock (my husband ALWAYS fills and stretches me, which at least gives me plenty of physical pleasure). Inexperienced with a large cock vs. experienced with a small one? Well, I guess most would probably prefer the latter.
For me, I have what I have and I'm happy with it. Like I say to myself, I spend a few hours a week in bed with him and alot more time with him outside of bed, so to judge my happiness and marriage strictly by my sex life would be kind of shallow, IMO.
