Your first time with another guy your expirence of first time

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  1. dickthrobbing

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    Mainly a question for the gay and bi guys here but straight guys are welcome to answer if they have experience,

    What were your thoughts, feeling and even emotions the first time you had sex with another guy.

    For me my fist experience was a real whirlwind of fear, excitement and pleasure,
    I feared that I had made the wrong decision to have sex with another guy would it screw me up mentally inside would I regret doing it.
    Excited because it was a whole new sexual experience.
    The pleasure I actually got when I realised I was actually into this, I could never have imagined the sensations as a guys cock grew in my mouth and as for anal :wink:

    Now I have I think the balance right in my life that is I enjoy even desire sex occasionally with another guy :smile:
     
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    I think that now You should drop 40 percent more fron your straight to 50/50.

    My first experience was when I was fourteen, my oldest cousin 23 came to my house to spend the night and than he raped me whit his thick cock, he grabbed me and used my mouth and asshole as he please and I could not even run from him, I was wearing a tight skirt and hills.:biggrin1:
     
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    The first time I was really scared as I was not sure that I was gay (well I did but I didn't...I was young) The guy that I though OK fuck it I have to try and see was an attractive guy I met briefly at an open call job interview. He asked for my number as he was new in town and wanted to go out. I left quickly as I was offered the job and thought better of it. So when I gave my number nothing was said so I had a bit of a suprise when he called and wanted to get together for a little.. ya know.

    At this point I thought I must be gay and I must be a bottom becuse that what I found sexually appealing in my fantasies. Well I got to his after driving miles...so I though Jesus I am way out he must be a serial killer. Something said fuck it I had to know and the not knowing was becomming abit of an obession with me. Anyway he was't a serial killer...he was was huge and crooked...stuffed like a pig I still didn't feel like it was 'right' but given my initial fear and the overwhelmed feeling I experienced I thought I would try again. In a subsequent visit I realised he was much older than me which he had lied about so I stopped going around as I thought he must be hiding somethingelse like a dreaded sexual disease.

    I didn't enjoy that first experience beacuse of the fear that was going through my mind at the time. But I worked it out and realised I do like men.:biggrin1:
     
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    He should have helped you with your homework cuz your spelling needs some work:smile:
     
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    Well sorry man this is not my main language even if I use iespell thats pure much what I got a poor English.
     
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    my first and only encounter was with an guy who took me by surprise... it was about 10 years back, the whole event i was scared and in a trance (i was young, didn't know how to react or what i was feeling)... i only let him suck me off (which was awesome BTW) but did not agree to suck him ... now i regret it. It's not easy to get a chance like that in our country & society.
     
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    My first time was when I was in my teens. I had a friend with whom I would masturbate. We were comfortable doing it in from of each other and did it often. One day, out of the blue, he asked if he could suck me off. I was shocked and mortified. I immediately said, "no way!" but he was relentless and was almost begging me. I gave in and it was awesome. It was the first blowjob I ever got and he was a swallower...never spilled a drop!

    Over the next several months, he sucked me off many more times. On three different occaisons, I had his cock in my mouth in an attempt to reciprocate. But alas, I chickened out every time, which was disappointing for us both, but especially him. He finally cut me off due to everything being a little to "one way." I don't blame him and like the post above, I've regretted it ever since.
     
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    Fear and worry, since I wasn't sure what the heck I was doing. Everything was very awkward at first. He was an amazing bottom!

    I was really worried I was hurting him (my first time, but it wasn't his), but he reassured me quite a bit. I remember it took a looooong time for me to get off and he came twice which I thought was some rare and amazing talent at the time. I came and it was the most amazing feeling I'd ever experienced. I remember I felt like "Oh, yeah. I'm a MAN now!".

    Then the people watching clapped. We were in a public restroom. I guess that's where my exhibitionist streak comes from.

    Funny thing. After that experience were were "boyfriends" for a bit. We got this old and really worn out copy of "The Joy of Gay Sex" and tried almost everything in it. We were in boarding school and after I left, we kept in touch for a bit. The very last time I spoke to him, he went on about how he was really straight and it was all "experimentation".
     
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    First time jack'd off was at boy scout camp. Walked in on a guy that was like 20-ish that was jacking off in his tent. Didn't know what the hell he was doing he said get lost or join him. So I joined him; I was around 8 at the time. Had a few wet dreams so it was time I learned how to deal with this thing. He told me I had a nice sized dick for my age; didn't take the clue.

    Had to show my buddies what I just learned. Did a few circle jerks with buddies; and saw a few porno mags by then looking at the dudes in them I thought my size was average.

    Then that winter or the winter after during a winter camp out was with some buddies in a tent. I'd jack'd off with most of them by then. An 18 year old came into the tent and said, "who in here has the biggest cock?". All my buddies pointed at me; he said "I bet you $20 bucks my dick is bigger than yours". Next thing I know we were in the middle of the tent jackin off and my buddies were cheering me on.

    The 18 year old give me 20 bucks and left.

    Then when I was 18 got a bj from the other sex. She commented several times on my size but I just though she was being polite.

    After that hooked up with a mid 30's to 40 years old and ended up fucking him every night my SR year in high school.
     
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    Most people writing in a second or even third language are usually a bit beyond their comfort zone. Im sure it doesnt really do much positive to criticize their spelling. Try it sometime!
    I would rather see what people had to say and contribute.
     
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    You could be right, although I only have sex with another guy a few times a year the last time was a threesome MMF :smile: and that was 4 months ago, I have the urge for cock again, its strange how the mood takes me
     
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    try to find a website about grammar. It would seem to suit you.:biggrin1:
     
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