- Your first time -

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  1. Imported

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    LoveGirl: Hehe. Second best time of my life.
     
  2. Imported

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    Javierdude22: I lost mine during a one night stand. I regretted it afterwards, but I wouldnt rate it as a bad experience.

    It happened, and I learned from it. C'est tout.
     
  3. Franky

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    I was dreadful, I shot my load as soon as I entered the guy. I did the same the first time I entered a girl.
     
  4. mindseye

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    Mine was great, but I don't think I'd compare it to any of the categories listed.

    11th grade -- my father's condition was getting serious enough that taking care of him was a full-time job for my mom, so they sent me to a boarding school for my junior year so Mom wouldn't be too overburdened. Quickly, I became best friends with a guy named Ron who lived on my floor. Ron had a roommate, William, who seemed nice enough but was kind of reserved and didn't hang around much when Ron and I were together.

    One Friday in October, I stopped by Ron's room. William was playing this game for the Apple II called "Suicide" and told me that Ron had to go home for the weekend. I stood at the doorway watching the game he was playing -- it was pretty cool by 1983 standards, I guess...

    After a few minutes, William noticed I was watching the game and asked if I wanted to try it myself. So I came in and sat next to him, and -- well, I suck at video games, but it was fun. Suicide had a two-player mode, and he beat me pretty handily.

    One thing you could say about Apple IIs -- they were small. And for two people to sit close enough to the keyboard to play this game simultaneously, they had to sit real close. I don't know if William felt as funny as I did, but in short order the conversation turned to girls.

    He started to talk about which girls on campus he "liked", and wanted to know who I "liked" -- and I had to make up something because by this point I had figured out that I was probably gay. I knew that if I named any girl in particular, word would eventually get to her, and I didn't want that to happen. So I copped the attitude that any girl was okay in the dark, "after all, a hole's a hole". Pretty scummy and sexist I know, but I thought it'd be enough to cover me.

    Instead, William called my bluff. "Yeah? But you wouldn't let a guy suck you off, would you?"

    Aaaaaaugh! Now I had to think fast. Was this an opportunity or a trap? I had to come up with an answer that didn't sound gay. I said something like, "Well, if I kept my eyes closed, I probably couldn't tell the difference, y'know?"

    Awkward silence followed. And then an abrupt change of subject. The admission may have been more than William wanted to hear -- he looked away and opened a drawer full of disks, and asked, "you want to see some of the other games I have?"

    We went through the motions of loading up another game and playing a round of it, but things were definitely different. The conversation wasn't flowing anymore -- we were both tiptoeing around the elephant in the room.

    Finally, William quietly said, "I bet you're right -- I probably couldn't tell the difference either." And I knew what he meant. Ron was out of town -- with the doors locked, there'd be no one to barge in on us.

    We negotiated a bit -- it was agreed that neither of us were gay; that this was merely a scientific experiment of sorts, and that to be fair, we each had to take a turn as blow-job-giver. So, that Friday night, we each took a turn blowing the other -- pretending that this was nothing more than an information-gathering expedition.

    Saturday, however, Ron was still out of town, so we repeated the experiment! :)

    21 years later, William and I are still friends, although we live in different parts of the country and haven't seen each other in person for over ten years.
     
  5. jonb

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    I rated mine a 6. Nothing special. Basically a one-night stand.
     
  6. Imported

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    GentleBear:
    ::nods in agreement::

    It was a guy I met in a bookshop (not a porn store) in a gay part of town. He gave me his number. I went to his place, he cooked me dinner and we did it. It was very mechanical and clumsy. He was into light s&m and I wasnt into it at all. He did give great head though...and I realized that I was gay for sure. I couldnt get enough of his cock ^_^
     
  7. Pecker

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    Lost mine on my wedding night. My bride was also a virgin. Although I'd received a lot of advice from friends and cousins, I still didn't realize that I was above average in size, especially in girth, so I expected to find it an easy thing to accomplish.

    It's a good thing she and I were determined and horny though because it took me three tries (and two ejaculations) to get through her hymen: turns out she had both a thick membrane and a narrow vagina. So although, once completed, the first time was exhausting we did manage to learn a lot about the act by dawn.
     
  8. prepstudinsc

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    I wish I had waited....there's no reason to rush into a "first time." Society puts all sorts of pressure to lose one's virginity, but being a church goer, I felt this great dichotomy between what I was taught/what I knew I should do and what I saw all my friends doing. I was in college when I lost it, and really my first time wasn't all that great. I think I was so nervous that God was going to strike me dead on the spot that my conscience was weighing heavy on me. I had a lot of guilt for a while. It didn't stop me from doing it, of course, but it has kept me from being promiscuous. Even being 34 and single, I don't sleep around. I uphold my principles. I just wish that I had waited. It's not something that I can go back and undo, but looking back, it's not an experience that helped me and I probably have hurt others by my actions more than helped them. A little bit of pleasure isn't worth it. I've done it, I enjoyed it, but I have other things in my life that are more important.
     
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    I wish I would have waited. Peer pressure at its best... He was the quarterback and I was the captain of the cheering squad... it was suppose to be a match made in heaven... YEAH, RIGHT! lol

    I regret it, fully....
     
  10. SpeedoGuy

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    My first time time was great although it was preditictably hampered by the clumsy fumblings of both adolescent participants. lol. She had hinted she was aroused by my bulge but I really didn't take her attention seriously until she actually seduced me. I was totally totally flattered because she was older than me and I just naturally assumed she knew what to do. However it soon became evident that lack of technique, lack of lube, over-eagerness and general inexperience on both our parts would doom our first attempts. She was too aggressive with foreplay on me so I was always too close to cumming every time I tried to penetrate her. Result: several messy failures before we finally got it right.

    SG
     
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