Your Most Unselfish Lover

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Who was your most unselfish lover? Ever have someone that would get you off and truly didn't care if you got them off, wasn't disappointed they didn't cum, didn't want anything in return, they were just happy to see you have fun?
 

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There was a girl in university who was somewhat like that. She would do anything for me and really wasn’t to into sex for herself. She would have orgasms and all, but afterwards she would want to make real sure it had been good for me. In fact, she seemed to be born to service other people. She was always cooking or doing my laundry, always asking what I wanted. We lived in the same house for one year and slept together for about four months.

I got quite bored with her sexually. I want to please my partner and find it a huge turn on to get her off. Being desired by another makes me feel sexy. With that girl I felt like I was using her, even though she wasn’t demanding anything in return. I was not sad to go our separate ways when summer break came.

I prefer a more challenging and demanding lover. Someone who’ll yell out “Give It To Me!! :biggrin1: And really mean it.
 

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Nice story vince. I think if someone is overly unselfish it comes across like they don't think they are good enough for you, and that can turn you off in the long-term. But in the short-term it sounds fun. Like you, I don't know if I would ever be comfortable in a situation like that.
 

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Who was your most unselfish lover? Ever have someone that would get you off and truly didn't care if you got them off, wasn't disappointed they didn't cum, didn't want anything in return, they were just happy to see you have fun?
Bill. The strange thing about him is that he gets off (yes, I am using present tense) just by giving me a blowjob. When we engage in sex beyond that, he is equally as giving. If I am fucking him, he is content once I"ve released and if he is fucking me, he seems content as soon as he's noticed that I've peaked. (since he is often on my backside doing a reach-around, he knows immediately). Bill also introduced me to a friend of his (some of you know him) who is equally slutty and get's off more by pleasing others. I've been with several other men, none though as giving as these two.

There was one woman who seemed similarly giving about 10 years ago. The relationship ended when I got the feeling that she found orgasms for her were some sort of sin (although sex without marriage was not a sin).
 

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my ex.... I think she didnt like my dick or something, maybe it hurt her. She always was like " cum quickly" hate that..

And she call me selfish a few time :0 Woot?

So, yes... I can see the difference now since I like my gf even more and sex is muuuuuuuuch better... Perfect actually.
 

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i hate to say it.. but my ex girlfriend.. shed ask me all the time if i wanted a blowjob or if i needed to cum, and shed be more than happy to at least jerk me off , anytime.. and a handjob of course would always turn into a blowjob
 

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I have a gay friend with whom I was just hanging out at his house drinking beers and watching tv a few years ago. I was complaining about how long it had been since I got sucked.

And he said, "Well, if a blowjob's all you want, I'd like to help!" And he scooted next to me, opened my belt ad unbuttoned my jeans, fished my cock out of my boxers, and proceeded to give me just about the best blowjob I've ever had. I lasted maybe 30 seconds before I show big gobs of sperm in his mouth. He kept my cock in his mouth as my cock softened, then stuffed it back in my boxers, and buttoned up my jeans.

"Well, thanks, Mark," I told him (That's not his real name, BTW...). "Can I return the favor?" "Oh, no, not necessary...I just really wanted to suck your cock..."
 

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In college, there was a guy, who would only get pleasure after he had me cum 5 to 6 times orally, he would never use his hands, just his mouth. He would touch himself only after I came several times. His only request was that he came on my chest, and then I could fuck him.