I'm starting this thread because I didn't want to hijack someone elses thread. Anyone in a relationship where your partner has kids? How do you handle it? Have you chosen to never get involved with someone who has kids? How do you deal with the ex? etc, etc I could go on forever with the questions! Here's my situation. Newish relationship, distance relationship, he has kids with two ex's, works long hours. Gawd it's killing me:wink: So the odds are stacked before we start!!:redface: However we've chatted and I did mention that I could see problems if this ever got really serious, foremost I'd always said I would never get involved with a guy with kids, too complicated, you're never the priority, and I don't know if I could handle 'sharing' a guy. But I also said I only have two choices with how things are going. Walk away before it gets serious and someone gets hurt OR be an adult and accept things as they are. So for now we are seeing how things go and we've agreed to be exclusive. How do you guys and gals make it work?