Your Partners Annoying Habits - How Do You Cope? I know we all have dealbreakers; we have discussed those ad nauseum in other threads. What do you do when the object of your affection has/does one of those things on your list? Does it depend upon what it is? Or does it depend on the person, whether you decide to bend your rules? How much can the rose colored glasses of a new romance hide? At what point do you decide that his cracking his knuckles to punctuate sentences or her eating Snickers in bed really is a big deal and you just can't live with that? As an asthmatic and a non-smoker it takes me two days to recover everytime I go to my new beaus house. He has roommates and all of them smoke. He smokes too; but not around me. So obviously I can't go over there anymore or I can just hang out in the yard and play with the cat. But what really annoys me is the snuff. :yuck: He's not a baseball player, so it's not related to a team/camraderie thing? I just don't get it; it's such a gross habit. Unfortunately this may be the death of us. Please men, tell me what is the appeal of dipping snuff? At what point do you decide you can live with a dealbreaker? At what point do you decide great sex just isn't worth dealing with it and walk away?