Your Reaction To Seeing Someone You Hooked Up With Years Ago

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Last night at the grocery store I saw a guy I hooked up with several times 17-18 years ago. As I shopped I saw him a few more times but we never passed each other. I don’t know if he saw me or not.

When we hooked up he had a nice body, a meaty cock and a great ass. We had really good sexual chemistry and I really liked fucking him. After the first time he pinged me in one of the chat rooms several times to meet up again. We lost touch and a year or so later I found out through mutual friends he was in a relationship with someone. Last night he was wearing jeans and a t shirt and a wedding ring. Although aged, with gray hair and glasses, he still looked handsome and had a nice body. I’d still fuck him today.

Driving home and thinking about him years ago I had this odd feeling, like I was reading chapters in a book, almost disconnected from another time, but at the same time wondering if he’s still a great fuck.

I guess it’s a sign of aging.

I’m curious what others have experienced.
 
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mortification... that was my reaction. Mostly because I did not remember the guy at all when he was talking to me. I knew, I knew him from somewhere but forgot that we had fucked. Like a bad memory, I guess I suppressed him until he was right in front of me.
 
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I've kept in touch with quite a few of the guys I've hooked up with over the years - living in a city with a big gay presence has that effect - its only when there are 2 exs and your current with you and they're all discussing your technique - 'did he do this to you' ,'what about this' 'omg I came every time he rimmed me' 'biggest or not'?? and they just merrily go on discussing one whilst you're there - ground swallow me up!!!!
 
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I run into my first boyfriend from time to time. All I remember about him is that I was 10 years younger than him, he dumped me for a guy who was about 10 years younger than me, they were together for about 12 years when the new guy caught my ex cheating on him and dumped him, and I have seen him on different gay websites listing his age about 20 years younger than it is. He is retired now, and he works out a lot, but he has gotten much older looking. When we dated, he used to put Oil of Olay on his face to help hide the lines. But his age has caught up with him.
 

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I run into my first boyfriend from time to time. All I remember about him is that I was 10 years younger than him, he dumped me for a guy who was about 10 years younger than me, they were together for about 12 years when the new guy caught my ex cheating on him and dumped him, and I have seen him on different gay websites listing his age about 20 years younger than it is. He is retired now, and he works out a lot, but he has gotten much older looking. When we dated, he used to put Oil of Olay on his face to help hide the lines. But his age has caught up with him.

That’s so sad.

I pray that I have the self dignity to age with grace.
 

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I have had two funny ones. First one was a guy I hooked up with had a bf that lived with him, he wanted to blow me and i wanted to get fucked so that as the compromise since he was more of a bot. Months later i get hit up on grindr and its to the same place. No face pics exchanged but i got the address and was like is this the same guy? Showed up and it was his bf.

Other time I fucked around with a CD and years later I fuck this trans. A few weeks later, I am talking to the CD because she was a hair dresser for product. So I meet her at her house and guess who her roomate was lol
 

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I think he is trapped in an age from many years ago.

It happens to so many gay men. They emphasized the importance of youth and beauty so much that they forget to cultivate solid relationships. Going to the gym and bleaching your ass is not a personality.
 
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It happens to so many gay men. They emphasized the importance of youth and beauty so much that they forget to cultivate solid relationships. Going to the gym and bleaching your ass is not a personality.

Facts.
 
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It happens to so many gay men. They emphasized the importance of youth and beauty so much that they forget to cultivate solid relationships. Going to the gym and bleaching your ass is not a personality.

So AMEN to that boy. Once I got a notebook from a Fifty-something: it had become sluggish and he requested me to get it all on fast track again, as I am handy with this stuff.

On his desktop screen I found shortcuts to sites named BleachYourLittleStar and sites for a fake smile. My mouth felt open. I found it sad because he was really an attractive dude and did not need all that crap.

But it is easy said. What will I do in his place, at the same age? Requesting goldfish lips? Who knows?

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Regarding the topic. With men I had once a hook up, I always have a moment of recognition: "Hi dude!". I must say sometimes I do not even remember the sex or the dude, when it was just in a sauna or so. Real dates wirth sleepover and breakfast, yeah, most of them I remember and most of them still look good. I would still date them. :)
 

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In college I was with this guy (also college) and we lived together for about 14 months. Then one night he went out, got drunk and ended up sleeping with someone else. We soon departed but as friends. Never really saw him again except around the quad when going to classes. Jump ahead 35 years; the guy is now my mail man. It was so funny when he picked up our route. The first day I saw him delivering, we talked at the end of my driveway for about 15 minutes. He still has no one in his life and I have been with my husband for 28 years, married legally since 2015. KARMA????? My husband still would prefer that one of my ex's was not our mail man, but he knows that nothing would ever happen.