Your son-in-law naked?

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  1. europeandude

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    Hi,
    I'd like to ask all of fathers-in-law, if you have seen your son-in-law cock?
    Or just dads, have u seen your daugther's bf cock?

    And adversely, have u seen your father-in-law or gf's dad naked?

    Did it come easily for u to undress in front of him in lockerroom and shower together after gym or swiming?
     
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    I'm sorry, what ??
     
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    this sounds a little rapey.
     
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    Sorry, my english is maybe not perfect ;)

    I thought today about my shyness, what would I do if i go to the gym or pool with my gf's father. I guess, it would be hard for me to undress and shower without any shyness. That's why I asked about fathers' feelings...
     
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    see, it's much less creepy to ask the question in that context, rather than the way you asked it originally. Furthermore, the thread is labeled as Son-in-Law naked, rather than something like "being nude in front of gf's dad?" That's why it sounded rapey.

    Anywho, fuck him. You have a cock, he has a cock, you are both men. Just get naked already. I always find it annoying when people find the thought of being nude due to the sexualization of the nude form (even if it is sexy as fuck). Maybe it's just me wanting to see more naked men. I dunno.

    Just, don't be shy.
     
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    Ok. That's a little different. But frankly, I wouldn't give it much thought one way or another.
     
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    Why do so many people open threads entitled "your son-in-law naked" when they are only going to say something negative about the topic. If I were offended by the topic of seeing my father naked, my son naked, my brother naked, old people naked, etc. I probably wouldn't click on a link to a thread entitled "your brother naked" or "old people naked." If you really aren't interested, stop reading!
     
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    Why can't people learn to be patient with someone whose native language is not English?
     
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    I remember reading a thread similar to this before. I can try to search and find it. I had no problem reading the question--your English is fine, just small things that people want to point out. Welcome to LPSG.
     
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    if you are married long enough and hang out with you in-laws on a regular basis, you are bound to see either or both naked. why are you trying to make nothing in to something?
     
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    Come on guys. Let's stop being so narrow-minded.

    I think it's a good question, because I would find it less easy to undress in front of my gf's father than in front of close friends. I have never experienced a situation like this, but I think I would undress anyway.

    And I can imagine that a dad wants his daughter to stay 'her little girl' forever. Then it could be kind of strange to see the bf of your little girl naked. And if you want to go filisofical/biblical/poetical: the penis of your daughters boyfriend is the personification of her growing independency.
     
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    Firstly can I welcome Europeandude to the site and hope he has not been discouraged by peoples comments, from making futher posts to the site

    I have to agree with what has been said in the previous posts. Not everyone finds it easy to make the step to write and submit there first post, particularly if English is not the first language.
    Also if you dont like the title of the post then do as the rest of us do just ignore it. It is the job of the moderators to deal with anything that is found to be inapporpriate for the site, they are always swift to act and deal with any that aren't.

    We should make any member, particularly new members welcome, and not shoot them down in flames.
     
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    There are a few that like to attack every question that's asked. If they didn't think of it or if they find it is outside their base of reference, then it is an attack. You're a weirdo, you're a pervert, you're unnatural. I guess we're just supposed to rehash the same narrow set of questions that brought them here originally. A user forum is all about tolerance. If you are not interested in other's views, why are you here?
     
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    Hi Europeandude,

    Thanks for your post and welcome! I understand that the situation may be uncomfortable but as long as you are confident in yourself while remaining respectful to those around you, there will never be any problems. Good luck!
     
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    It would make the situation better if you were huge
     
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    If I had a son-in-law, you bet I'd maneuver a way to see him naked. Definitely.
     
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    OK...to get to your question. Yeah, I had a similar feeling when I first married. I was definitely not shy about changing in a locker room with guys but went swimming with my wife's family at the Y and her father was so cool with it. Casual, normal, manly response. I think he would be like most father in laws and not sexualize the situation in the least. We are in a locker room. We change. We talk as we change. We shower, we leave. Yeah, he was from Europe (Switzerland).
     
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    It hasn't come up yet but I'm sure it will as my daughter is now 21 and seriously dating one young man.
     
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    You might want to find out if he has a big piece of meat and fast
     
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    I am often self-conscious of being naked in front of other people except at the gym for some reason. I guess its me being aware that others are as much or more self conscious as me and i don't want them to feel embarrassed. Having spent several years at boarding school I got used to being naked and up close with other guys. There wasn't much opportunity to be alone and I got used to having to share my space and privacy with others. When I left school I had to adjust to not invading people's privacy. This was the case with my in-laws when they took me into their family. I had to be careful not to cross established boundaries for quite a while.