Honestly, I think you have to take sex out of equation sometimes, because some people only view sex as an action, rather than a part of something that is loving and compassionate. My question to you is, have you ever been in-love with a girl? And if you were in-love with her, how did that make you feel? Did you love the way she smiled at you, how she laughed, how she understood you, was the sex enjoyable? Im assuming it was, simply because love feels good. But, whos to say that relationships and sex are so black and white? Youre either this or that? Is love and sex really that bipolar?
Heres the thing, hornygamer89, humans are complex beings, and there is so much that science cannot tell us. With that said, there are going to be things that we feel and know deep down inside of us that we cannot explain. Here is another question for you. How many of your best male friends have you fallen in love with and wanted to peruse a romantic relationship with, as well as share sexual experiences? Let me guess, none of them because you choose not to, right? Why not, doesnt love and sex make us feel good, make us happy, etc? Or is it possible that you just dont have the makeup to feel that way towards members of the same gender?
To make it simple here, were gay and bisexual because we just are, not because we chose to be. We get comfort, happiness, and love from members of the same gender. We enjoy sharing sexual experiences with other men because it turns us on, drives us crazy. Isnt the same response you get from a woman? If you really want to understand why a man or woman is gay or bisexual, why not do a little experiment. Go fall in love with a man, have gay sex, and report back to us how that made you feel. Its no different than you have female friends who youre not attracted to and don't pursue a relationship with, or not being with somebody you find repulsive. See the key word there, attraction?
I can tell you this for sure, I dont need science, religion, or closed minded people to explain to me why I love and enjoy sex with the same gender. Like any other natural human response, I respond to what makes me feel good, happy, and what feels right, just like you.
One thing I've never understood about people like you though, is why it's so important to feel so right about sexuality. It has always made me suspect their dealing with their own sexuality, and they're trying so hard to prove that being gay is a choice so they don't have to face the truth.