Here's the thing... Summer/Autumn 2005 I was seeing this bloke after meeting online. We got on great, and he came over a few times. At one point he was over for a week and it was really great. After he went home his family life got really complicated and it all sort of went tits up with us. I was devastated because I'd really fallen for him. So, a few weeks ago he appeared back on the scene. And we've been chatting and getting on great again. He's made it clear he'd like the opportunity to make up for what happened before, and ultimately have us start again. So... do I go with my head or my heart? My heart says "go for it!!" my head is saying "run you stupid bitch, run". But I don't know what would be easier to deal with... my head being proved right or my heart always wondering. What do you all think?