madame_zora
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Whoa yeah! Any guy who can get off over and over isn't "small" in accomplishments!
New boobs are always good. Does this mean I get to keep the old ones? :lol:
I need more laughter smilies!
I need more laughter smilies!
GentleBear: great thread 
Ok, personally I like fantasizing about big fat dicks (and lets not forget big bouncy balls) and the first few times Im with a hung guy its fun/a turn-on, etc....but after a while a big one gets to be too much like work...you end up getting upper back and neck pain from giving head to those big ones!
I was in a relationship with this guy with 10" x 6" He was the most hung lover I ever had. I guess I got the desire for a very big one out of my system after him because the next guy I met was about 7" and very thick and I was like relieved about it. ^_^
Ok, personally I like fantasizing about big fat dicks (and lets not forget big bouncy balls) and the first few times Im with a hung guy its fun/a turn-on, etc....but after a while a big one gets to be too much like work...you end up getting upper back and neck pain from giving head to those big ones!
I was in a relationship with this guy with 10" x 6" He was the most hung lover I ever had. I guess I got the desire for a very big one out of my system after him because the next guy I met was about 7" and very thick and I was like relieved about it. ^_^
GentleBear: I guess I didnt post my view on "small"
<--- king of non sequiturs
If I really like a guy and I find him attractive, I dont care what size he is...for real! If we're just talking about jungle fucking animal sex, then average to large is what I prefer.
I've also noticed that men that have small penises are usually better in the sack, almost like they feel like they have to make up for their lack of size. <runs for cover>
<--- king of non sequiturs
If I really like a guy and I find him attractive, I dont care what size he is...for real! If we're just talking about jungle fucking animal sex, then average to large is what I prefer.
I've also noticed that men that have small penises are usually better in the sack, almost like they feel like they have to make up for their lack of size. <runs for cover>
madame_zora
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Don't know about gay guys, but with str8 guys, I don't find that to be the case. At least with the ones I've had, the hung guys seem to be more apt to be better becuase they can't wait to prove what their package can do!
I have to agree with madame zora. I can't really rate my ability in the sack without being subjective, but I do know that I'm confident as hell when a woman starts to unzip and that has to help some.
I also know that a large penis--specifically long-- is very versitle. So even if the length doesn't feel better to the woman, it allows for a wide array of positions, etc. I believe that one of the women on this site (perhaps Cara... I don't remember) says that she likes to have sex in the spoon position with her hung boyfriend's dick resting inside her. A man of average endowment cannot complete such a feat.
I also know that a large penis--specifically long-- is very versitle. So even if the length doesn't feel better to the woman, it allows for a wide array of positions, etc. I believe that one of the women on this site (perhaps Cara... I don't remember) says that she likes to have sex in the spoon position with her hung boyfriend's dick resting inside her. A man of average endowment cannot complete such a feat.
I'm not the biggest guy around here (8.75" last I measured) and up until I actually used it, I never even considered it that big. But upon use, Ive had a couple girls tell me how much they enjoy it... now I'm sorry if I sound egotistical here, but when a person with whom you've just performed the most intimate and personal of acts tells you things like "it's so big" and "it's bigger than my ex's" it goes to your head (or at least it went to mine).
Once, while under the influence of alcohol, a friend of mine's girlfriend confided in me that his penis was too small at "only a few inches", maybe if he was good at oral sex or something, she wouldnt be complaining, but she was obviously not liking his size. It's not something I think about every time I'm around him, but I'm not going to forget either, and I feel sorry for him, I admit it. Now don't get me wrong here, I would never mock someone with a smaller penis than mine, but I wouldn't trade with him either.
I too have to agree with madame zora here. And as thirdleg pointed out, I also think that all Ive heard in my life about large dicks makes me extra confident when with a female. Also, I can only speak for myself here, but I've always considered sex as a give and take sort of thing, and if any guy (large or small) walks away from an unsatisfied partner, that's just wrong. I'm sure there are plenty of smaller guys out there who are awesome in bed, but I think a large penis definitely has its advantages (although there are probably lots of larger guys who may be terrible in bed).
Once, while under the influence of alcohol, a friend of mine's girlfriend confided in me that his penis was too small at "only a few inches", maybe if he was good at oral sex or something, she wouldnt be complaining, but she was obviously not liking his size. It's not something I think about every time I'm around him, but I'm not going to forget either, and I feel sorry for him, I admit it. Now don't get me wrong here, I would never mock someone with a smaller penis than mine, but I wouldn't trade with him either.
I too have to agree with madame zora here. And as thirdleg pointed out, I also think that all Ive heard in my life about large dicks makes me extra confident when with a female. Also, I can only speak for myself here, but I've always considered sex as a give and take sort of thing, and if any guy (large or small) walks away from an unsatisfied partner, that's just wrong. I'm sure there are plenty of smaller guys out there who are awesome in bed, but I think a large penis definitely has its advantages (although there are probably lots of larger guys who may be terrible in bed).
madame_zora
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See that's where a big guy has the advantage- he doesn't really have to be all that good, he just has to be able to maintain an erection for a decent period of time. For whatever reason, I've found bigger guys to stay harder longer. There's not a whole lot more to it than that. IMHO, oral sex is optional if the penetration does the trick. As soon as a guy starts telling me how good he is at eating pussy, I'm thinking to myself "little dick". (ducks and runs for cover)
lloyd_838: >>>>See that's where a big guy has the advantage- he doesn't really have to be all that good, he just has to be able to maintain an erection for a decent period of time. For whatever reason, I've found bigger guys to stay harder longer.>>>>>
Yeah, performance anxiety can make us little dick guys cum too quick. I should know at 4½. Heavy drinking was the only way to last longer for me!
>>>>>There's not a whole lot more to it than that. IMHO, oral sex is optional if the penetration does the trick. As soon as a guy starts telling me how good he is at eating pussy, I'm thinking to myself "little dick". (ducks and runs for cover)>>>>>
Yup, you got me pegged there. Also, I can't tell you the number of girls who have said, "Ok, now give me some head so I can cum too." Somehow, I used to interpret as "their problem" while now I can see my dick was just too small for them. Sure better than the girl just "going away mad" though. Even now, I am always pleased that the girl wants to cum with me even if she doesn't see me as real man capable of fucking her right. Kinda makes ya feel like a male lesbian, though! Small dick = big clit!
Lloyd
Yeah, performance anxiety can make us little dick guys cum too quick. I should know at 4½. Heavy drinking was the only way to last longer for me!
>>>>>There's not a whole lot more to it than that. IMHO, oral sex is optional if the penetration does the trick. As soon as a guy starts telling me how good he is at eating pussy, I'm thinking to myself "little dick". (ducks and runs for cover)>>>>>
Yup, you got me pegged there. Also, I can't tell you the number of girls who have said, "Ok, now give me some head so I can cum too." Somehow, I used to interpret as "their problem" while now I can see my dick was just too small for them. Sure better than the girl just "going away mad" though. Even now, I am always pleased that the girl wants to cum with me even if she doesn't see me as real man capable of fucking her right. Kinda makes ya feel like a male lesbian, though! Small dick = big clit!
Lloyd
lloyd_838:
Lloyd
By the way, your picture is terrific! You look like the type of woman I'm attracted to but can't possibly satisfy!
Lloyd
- jonb,
Well, even though I have a big dick, I listen to Indigo Girls, so I think I know what you're talking about.
And then there are the lesbian separatists, who could never decide if I were a friend (because I have brown skin) or an enemy (because I have a penis).
Jon (Hey, we both like the ladies.)
Please spare me the big-dicked dude who's not 'all that good'. I've met too many guys with big cocks who think their only job is to lie back, get hard and get serviced. I'd rather get busy with a dude who knows how to both give and receive, regardless of his endowment. I don't really get off on someone who just lies there and sweats. I want a partner who works as much as I do.
Surely the question was simple. Someone wanted to know what 'small' means. As I and many others have dicks over 8'' I would say that anyone with only, say, 7'' is small. As for the guys who say they have only 5.5'' I would say they have a medical problem. Therefore, size is relative to the questioner.
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I learned that if you want to know what a woman wants you have to ask. My best friend is my sister and we talk about everything. She said that she and most of the women she knows perfer a THICK penis, length is not that important. Actually they say that guys with long penis cause more discomfort than pleasure because they keep banging against their cervix. A thick penis gives them the sensation of fullness. With that in mind a would assume the perfect penis would be average length and above average in girth.
