Zilv gudel & rorke

Well maybe the fans shouldn’t be that invested to begin with... you can’t help someone that doesn’t wanna be helped. Don’t get me wrong, I still think he’s a victim but oh boy did I just lose my last ounce of sympathy for him..

It's mostly female fans. I dropped the matter while ago. If Rourke wants to believe that Zilv will get Kai out of his system and return to him. Let him think that! LOL
 
1 step forward, 1 step back. Some fans are disappointed, but supporting a broken hearted person is ever so frustrating.


But you also have to look at it through the lense of someone who was in love with a man for three years. You can’t just get over that in a few weeks. Also, I agree with him saying that the people sending him things to ‘open his eyes’ need to stop. He’s not stupid and he knows that they [Z&K] are acting like idiots. He doesn’t need hundreds of people sending SS.

Trying to force him to see things like this is counterproductive. It’s going to push him the opposite direction from what they’re trying to accomplish.
 
But you also have to look at it through the lense of someone who was in love with a man for three years. You can’t just get over that in a few weeks. Also, I agree with him saying that the people sending him things to ‘open his eyes’ need to stop. He’s not stupid and he knows that they [Z&K] are acting like idiots. He doesn’t need hundreds of people sending SS.

Trying to force him to see things like this is counterproductive. It’s going to push him the opposite direction from what they’re trying to accomplish.

That IS a good point.
 
But you also have to look at it through the lense of someone who was in love with a man for three years. You can’t just get over that in a few weeks. Also, I agree with him saying that the people sending him things to ‘open his eyes’ need to stop. He’s not stupid and he knows that they [Z&K] are acting like idiots. He doesn’t need hundreds of people sending SS.

Trying to force him to see things like this is counterproductive. It’s going to push him the opposite direction from what they’re trying to accomplish.
That's very true. When I had my first heartbreak, it took me a year to move on, and blocking some people from my life completely.

That's why I said dealing with a broken-hearted person is frustrating. My friends were frustrated with me at that time, and some other times, I was frustrated when dealing with my friends heartbreaks.

Being a public figure has a big downside for R to move on, with all these people telling him what to do and tagging him stuffs about Z and K.
 
Can someone condense the the story down on what’s happened thus far?
It started with a suggestive IG story from a young man to Z. Fans start questioning if they broke up or Z cheated. Both denied.

Slowly, the story unfold, Z and R had broken up for quite a while, threesomes and PS4 were mentioned as cause. Z is now with K. Both got a lot of hate due to how the story unfold and a lot of slurs spouted by them.

There was a brief mention of the three of them living together, tho R rejected. R is now broken-hearted and staying with his family.

Z and K still got a lot of hate online, with K staying out of SM and Z still insulting people every other days.

The latest was R posted in IG and pinning a message from friend suggesting that Z will came back to him someday. Fans disliked the comment, R defended his friend and some relatives of K trolling on twitter.
 
Can someone condense the the story down on what’s happened thus far?

Zilv switched his relationship status to in a relationship with this 18 y.o new guy on instagram without publicly confirming an end to his engagement with Rourke. Fans went wild. Hated on Zilv and the new guy. Zilv said him and Rourke were already broken up but tbh so many contradictory things have been said so... idk.

Rourke is/was heartbroken and pining on instagram whilst Zilv was posting pictures with the new guy of them in bed together and shit. Obsessy Rourke fans didnt take too kindly and shut both Zilv and new boys instagrams down.

Zilv has blocked Rourke out of their shared twitter and PH and put Twitter on private.
 
That’s a big nope for me. Nothing is attractive to me with Zilv and Kai. Zilv might’ve been attractive before his personality ruined it. And I never thought Kai was attractive. But to each their own.


Lollll personality
 
wait wait wait, they broke up because of PLAYSTATION!?

ok i'm out. i have zero time for this crap.


Yeah, Zilv said that Rourke liked to stay home and play PS4 while Zilv liked to club. The thing is, Zilv knew this about Rourke before they got together. So it’s just a lie. Rourke has never been anything but a homebody. And Zilv was also saying that Kai was ‘more adventurous and ambitious’ than Rourke. I’m sorry, what? Rourke was one semester [or year, I can’t remember] from getting his NURSING DEGREE. And being a drag Queen is more ambitious?!? Fuck off.

Those in the ‘Rourke camp’ know that anything said by Zilv or Kai are lies to make Rourke look bad; because they are the horrid ones in the situation.


Kai for wanting a taken man and then spreading lies about Rourke & Zilv for wanting to be stakes from Rourke and just being an overall cockwomble to everyone who supports only Rourke.
 
Yeah, Zilv said that Rourke liked to stay home and play PS4 while Zilv liked to club. The thing is, Zilv knew this about Rourke before they got together. So it’s just a lie. Rourke has never been anything but a homebody. And Zilv was also saying that Kai was ‘more adventurous and ambitious’ than Rourke. I’m sorry, what? Rourke was one semester [or year, I can’t remember] from getting his NURSING DEGREE. And being a drag Queen is more ambitious?!? Fuck off.

Those in the ‘Rourke camp’ know that anything said by Zilv or Kai are lies to make Rourke look bad; because they are the horrid ones in the situation.


Kai for wanting a taken man and then spreading lies about Rourke & Zilv for wanting to be stakes from Rourke and just being an overall cockwomble to everyone who supports only Rourke.

I actually think Zilv is/was being a hypergamous shitlord. Rourke was willing to live with Zilv in that cramped room back when he was doing menial labour. Before he was kicked out of uni he was balancing doing clinical placements, the porn and going on trips around the world with Z.

Then the pandemic happened and Z probs got bored and thought as a P0rNstAr he deserved a more glamorous lifestyle and that's what Kai sold to him.